Coaching practices for Abraham Wald Lesson
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- I can describe in vivid detail exactly what happened, but I never lift it into a lesson I could carry anywhere else
- I keep trying to grasp this abstract idea straight from the hardest, most far-out example and it just won’t click
- I open by laying out my framework and definitions up front, and I can watch people’s eyes glaze before I’ve even gotten anywhere
- When someone starts with the theory first my eyes glaze over and none of it sticks
- I want a few honest words each morning that land on the exact quality I’m trying to grow
Practices that may help
- Survivorship Bias: Learning from What You Can’t See
Survivorship bias is the error of drawing conclusions only from the cases that made it through a filter — winners, survivors, visible successes — while the failures that never appear are silently excluded. The clearest historical example is Abraham Wald’s WWII aircraft study: the military wanted to armor the bullet holes they saw on returning planes; Wald showed they should armor where they saw no damage, because planes hit there didn’t return. - The Good Life: Lessons from the Harvard Study
The Harvard Study of Adult Development — the longest longitudinal study of adult life, directed today by Robert Waldinger — found that the strongest predictor of long-term health and happiness is the quality of our relationships, not wealth or fame. It is real, decades-long research, but it is observational: it shows relationships and wellbeing move together, which is strong but not proof of pure cause. - Extract a transferable principle, not just a description
Ask "what general lesson could I carry into a different situation?" to lock in the learning.
Structured Reflection: Kolb’s Learning Cycle in Practice - Use progressive alignment: start with similar cases and move to more distant ones
Learn relational structure by comparing easy cases before applying the same structure to harder ones.
Analogical Reasoning - Open with a concrete story, not with your framework
Lead with a specific, sensory narrative before introducing any abstraction.
The Curse of Knowledge: Why Experts Struggle to Teach - Cycle from concrete to abstract and back
Start with a story, name the principle, then return to a new application.
Concrete Examples: How to Make Abstract Ideas Stick - Daily Mussar text study
Read a short Mussar text each day and let it speak to your current middah.
Mussar: The Jewish Path of Character - Generate your own examples for every concept
For each concept, produce your own real-life example before the text shows you one.
The Generation Effect: Why Making It Yourself Makes It Stick - Generate your own example after learning a concept
Immediately after encountering a concept, create a fresh example from your own life or field.
Concrete Examples: How to Make Abstract Ideas Stick - Hitbonenut: contemplative self-observation
Sit with your middah in focused contemplation — not analyzing it but watching it directly.
Mussar: The Jewish Path of Character
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- Concrete Examples How To Make Abstract Ideas Stick For My Teenager
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