Coaching practices for Annual Life Review Questions

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

• I only ever take stock of my life around New Year’s, and by then the year I’m grading is already gone
• Looking back, I see how much of who I am came from specific people
• When I do this alone in my head it’s too easy to let myself off the hook and skate past the uncomfortable parts
• I want to look back from the very end of my life and ask honestly what I actually did with my time
• I’m still funneling money toward priorities I set years ago, and my life has moved on since then

Practices that may help

1. Life Review and Reminiscence Therapy
   Robert Butler proposed that systematically reviewing one’s life narrative — organizing memories into a coherent story, reconciling conflicts, and identifying what has mattered — is a natural developmental task that, when done consciously, produces ego integrity, reduced depression, and greater life satisfaction. Randomized studies in older adults find moderate positive effects; the practice is also used meaningfully across adulthood, not only at end of life.
2. Run a quarterly life audit, not just an annual one
   Review all four quadrants of your life every 90 days while the feedback loop is still tight enough to correct.
   The Eisenhower Life Audit
3. The Annual Review (Tim Ferriss Method)
   Tim Ferriss’s annual review is built on two questions — "What went well this year?" and "What did not go well this year?" — applied systematically across major life domains and answered with enough specificity to produce different decisions next year. It is a practitioner tool without clinical evidence, but its mechanisms (structured reflection, explicit failure review, behavioral specificity) are consistent with goal-review and learning research.
4. Acknowledge the people who made you who you are
   Name and express gratitude to the specific people whose influence shaped your life.
   Life Review and Reminiscence Therapy
5. Share the review with someone who will ask honest questions
   A review held privately is easier to fudge; one shared with an honest questioner is harder to rationalize.
   The Annual Review (Tim Ferriss Method)
6. Write a brief final accounting
   Write as if you’re reporting on your life: what did you do with your time?
   Memento Mori: Using Mortality Awareness to Focus What Matters
7. Run an annual values-spending alignment review
   Review your spending against your values once a year — values shift, and so should the allocation.
   Values-Based Spending, Made Practical
8. Review and revise the bucket list quarterly
   A list reviewed only at writing is nostalgia; one reviewed quarterly is a live planning document.
   The Bucket List Method
9. Excavate your actual values from your history
   Use past choices and sacrifices — not aspirations — to find what you actually value.
   Life Review and Reminiscence Therapy
10. Review and update anti-goals annually as values evolve
    Anti-goals based on your 28-year-old priorities may be wrong for your 38-year-old ones — review them explicitly.
    Anti-Goals: Defining Success by What You Refuse to Accept

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