Coaching practices for Attention Management for My Teenager

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  • Between my phone, my laptop, my watch and a wall of browser tabs, something is pinging or badging me constantly
  • I only ever try to wrangle my attention once I’m already spiraling, when it’s far too late to work
  • I’m finally in the work and out of nowhere my brain throws up "did I reply to that text, did I pay that bill"
  • Right when I’m finally locked in, my brain throws up "remember to email so-and-so," and if I act on it the focus is shattered, but if I try to ignore it the thought just gets louder and keeps tugging until I deal with it.
  • Some part of me secretly believes that if I keep turning the problem over I’m being responsible, that the worrying is somehow protecting me

Practices that may help

  1. Attention Management, Made Practical
    Maura Thomas argues that the limiting constraint on productive knowledge work is not time — everyone has the same 24 hours — but attention: the ability to direct focus intentionally toward chosen work rather than being pulled reactively. Her attention management framework builds practices around controlling attentional choice, reducing reactive digital stimuli, and developing the skill of proactive, intentional focus. This is a practitioner framework aligned with attention and self-regulation research rather than a formally studied protocol.
  2. Reduce environmental triggers that pull attention reactively
    Remove or silence the notifications, badges, and ambient signals that constantly compete for your attention.
    Attention Management, Made Practical
  3. Daily 12-minute ATT practice
    Run the full three-phase ATT session every day as a skill, not a relaxation ritual.
    Attention Training Technique (ATT), Made Practical
  4. Capture distracting impulses to stay in focus without suppressing them
    When an off-topic thought or impulse arises during focus, write it on a capture pad and return — don’t suppress or follow.
    Attention Management, Made Practical
  5. Keep an attention capture list during hyperfocus
    Write down every impulse, distraction, and off-topic idea that arises during a session rather than acting on or suppressing it.
    Hyperfocus: Directing Intense Attention to What Matters Most
  6. Attention Training Technique (ATT), Made Practical
    The Attention Training Technique (ATT), developed by Adrian Wells, is a structured auditory exercise that rebuilds voluntary control over where attention goes — directly countering the self-focused, threat-locked attention that sustains anxiety and health anxiety. Randomised trials support its effectiveness as a standalone and as part of Metacognitive Therapy.
  7. Use improved attention to observe metacognitive beliefs
    Apply attentional control to notice — without engaging — the beliefs that drive overthinking.
    Attention Training Technique (ATT), Made Practical
  8. Attention training technique (ATT)
    Practice deliberately shifting attention across sounds — a drill that builds attention flexibility and reduces self-focus.
    Metacognitive Therapy, Made Practical
  9. Selective attention to individual sounds
    Deliberately focus on one distinct sound source among several and hold attention there.
    Attention Training Technique (ATT), Made Practical
  10. Catch people doing things right
    Most management attention goes to problems — systematically noticing good work is both rarer and more powerful.
    The One Minute Manager: Three Practices That Still Work

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