Coaching practices for Awe Encounter Practice

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

• The second something throws me
• In the moment my practice goes smooth and I walk away feeling like I’ve got it nailed
• I’m great at this when it’s calm and low-stakes in practice, but the second I’m in the real room
• I’m kind and openhearted with the people I already love and quietly closed off to the ones who get under my skin, and I’m realizing that warmth that only flows toward easy people isn’t really the practice
• My practice lives in a little window and the rest of the day

Practices that may help

1. Practise with the unexpected
   When things go wrong unexpectedly, use that moment as the actual practice rather than a break from it.
   Lojong: Tibetan Mind Training
2. Stop judging learning by today’s performance
   How well you do during practice is a bad predictor of how much you will keep.
   Desirable Difficulties: When Harder Means Better Learning
3. Situated practice in authentic contexts
   Practice the skill inside the real-world context where it will eventually be used.
   Cognitive Apprenticeship: Learning by Making Thinking Visible
4. Always abide by the three principles
   Maintain your vow, don’t show off, and practise impartially with everyone — not just the people you like.
   Lojong: Tibetan Mind Training
5. Treat every act as an offering — however mundane
   The karma yoga practitioner does not divide life into sacred and secular — every act done with full attention is practice.
   Karma Yoga: The Yoga of Selfless Action
6. Calibrate practice difficulty so it is challenging but not overwhelming
   Aim for 60–85% success rates in practice — not perfection, and not near-failure.
   Contextual Interference: Why Varied Practice Beats Blocked Repetition
7. Zen Practice (Zazen and Beyond)
   Zen centers on zazen — seated meditation — in two main forms: shikantaza ("just sitting" in open awareness) and koan practice (sustained inquiry into a paradoxical question). Alongside these sits "beginner’s mind," the attitude of meeting experience without preconception. These are traditional contemplative practices; some mechanisms overlap with studied attention training, but Zen’s specific aims and claims are largely experiential rather than clinically validated.
8. Everyday integration — using commute and errand walks as practice
   Transform a portion of routine walking into meditation by choosing one formal practice element to maintain for the duration.
   Walking Meditation, Made Practical
9. Bring contemplative attention to ordinary moments
   Practice full presence in mundane activities as a form of sacred attentiveness.
   The Perennial Philosophy, Made Practical
10. Practising li: ritual propriety in routine
    Choose one recurring interaction and treat it with full deliberate attention as a form of practice.
    Confucian Self-Cultivation: The Mencius Approach

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