Coaching practices for Bedtime Routine Adults

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  • Every night before bed looks completely different depending on my mood
  • I work or scroll right up until the moment I switch off the light and then expect my brain to drop into sleep on command
  • I go straight from being fully switched-on
  • The moment the lights go out my brain starts running tomorrow’s to-do list on a loop
  • There’s no point where I actually put the screen down for the night

Practices that may help

  1. Anchor the wind-down with a consistent starting cue
    A repeated pre-sleep ritual — a specific tea, a book, a certain playlist — becomes a conditioned cue that induces sleepiness over time.
    The Wind-Down Routine: Engineering Your Path to Sleep
  2. The Wind-Down Routine: Engineering Your Path to Sleep
    A wind-down routine works by gradually reducing physiological arousal — light levels, core temperature, cognitive load, and sympathetic nervous system activity — in the 60–90 minutes before bed. The individual components (light reduction, cool room, worry journaling, avoiding screens) each have mechanistic or clinical support; the bundled routine itself is practitioner-established rather than RCT-proven as a whole.
  3. Build a wind-down buffer before bed
    Spend 30–60 minutes downshifting so the brain can transition out of high arousal.
    Sleep Hygiene That Actually Moves the Needle
  4. Build a consistent pre-sleep wind-down routine
    Create a repeatable 30-60 minute pre-sleep sequence that cues the nervous system toward rest.
    The Phone-Free Bedroom
  5. Offload cognitive load with a bedtime worry journal
    Write tomorrow’s to-do list and any intrusive worries before bed — externalized thoughts stop competing for attention at sleep onset.
    The Wind-Down Routine: Engineering Your Path to Sleep
  6. Set a screen cutoff time
    Pick a consistent hour to put screens away and protect the wind-down window.
    The Digital Sunset
  7. Replace phone scrolling with a physical book at bedtime
    A physical book provides relaxation without blue light, notifications, or the variable-reward loop.
    The Phone-Free Bedroom
  8. Box breathing as a sleep-onset tool
    Use the equal-cadence pattern in bed to lower arousal and shorten the time to sleep.
    Box Breathing, Made Practical
  9. Schedule a worry time earlier in the day
    Contain bedtime worry by giving anxious thoughts a specific earlier window, then postponing them at night.
    CBT for Insomnia (CBT-I), Made Practical
  10. Use 4-7-8 breathing as a sleep-onset ritual
    Four to eight cycles in bed before sleep reduces physiological arousal and supports the transition into sleep.
    4-7-8 Breathing, Made Practical

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