Coaching practices for Beeminder Anti Charity
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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?
- I’ve tried betting money on my goals before, but losing twenty bucks barely registers and I just shrug it off
- Even putting money on the line hasn’t been enough to make me follow through
- On a calm Sunday I’m completely sure I’ll follow through this week, but I know by Wednesday afternoon, when the urge hits, that resolve will evaporate
- Every payday I tell myself I’ll set some aside, and every payday it’s gone before I get around to it
- My money just sloshes around in one undifferentiated pile and I never seem to save for the things I actually care about
Practices that may help
- Anti-charity stakes
Pledge that failure sends your money to a cause you despise.
Precommitment Devices (Ulysses Contracts) - Use an anti-charity donation as your stake
Agree to donate to an organization you oppose if you fail — loss framing at its most visceral.
Commitment Contracts, Made Practical - Use precommitment devices to lock in future behavior from a patient vantage point
Remove the option to defect when temptation peaks by committing now, before present bias activates.
Hyperbolic Discounting — Why Future You Always Gets the Short End - Automate future-self allocations at a moment of patience
Set up automatic transfers or pre-blocked time when you’re in a patient state — remove the future-self decision from present-self’s hands.
Hyperbolic Discounting — Why Future You Always Gets the Short End - Use mental buckets deliberately, not accidentally
The same bias that distorts decisions can be enlisted to protect your priorities.
Mental Accounting, Made Practical - Designate one category as zero for a month
Choose one spending category and put nothing in its envelope for one month — the absence of a budget makes the behavior, not the amount, visible.
The Envelope System, Made Practical - Update your attribution when evidence warrants
Charitable interpretation is a starting point, not a final verdict — revise it when facts change.
Hanlon's Razor: Never Attribute to Malice What Stupidity Can Explain - Lock in the future-oriented choice before the temptation arrives
Pre-commit when motivated and calm so a future impulsive self doesn’t undo it.
The Marshmallow Test and Your Money - Cut ruthlessly in categories that serve no value
Spending that serves no stated value is the right place to be ruthless — not the spending that matters.
Values-Based Spending, Made Practical - Protect the 30% wants budget as a deliberate allocation
Once the needs and savings are covered, the wants budget is yours to spend without guilt.
The 50/30/20 Budget: A Simple Framework for Where Your Money Goes
Related concerns
- Anti Charity Commitment Contract
Agree to donate to an organization you oppose if you fail — loss framing at its most visceral.
Use an anti-charity donation as your stake
- Commitment Device Money
A precommitment device is a constraint you impose on your future self while you still have the clarity to want the right thing — locking in a choice so the weaker, in-the-moment you cannot undo it. Commitment contracts (including ones with real money or social stakes) have solid experimental support, though they help most for people already motivated to change.
- Commitment Device Savings
A precommitment device is a constraint you impose on your future self while you still have the clarity to want the right thing — locking in a choice so the weaker, in-the-moment you cannot undo it. Commitment contracts (including ones with real money or social stakes) have solid experimental support, though they help most for people already motivated to change.
- Ledger Clearing Motivation
Write down what you’re leaving behind — then literally close the notebook to signal the fresh start.
Clear the past-failure ledger explicitly
- Present Bias Financial Decisions
You are built to over-value the present — naming this makes the bias workable rather than shameful.
Recognize present bias as a feature of the mind, not a moral failure
- Public Commitment Money
A commitment contract binds your future self to a course of action by attaching real costs — financial, social, or reputational — to failure. The evidence from savings programs and behavioral economics is solid for financial commitments; effects on health and habit change are positive but more variable, and contracts work best when you already want to change.
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