Coaching practices for Behavioral Goal Description
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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?
- I keep telling myself things like "try harder" and "stay focused," and then in the moment those words give me nothing to actually grab onto
- I write down things like "be consistent" and "execute well" thinking those are my action goals, but they’re really just the result wearing a disguise
- My goals are always mushy
- I know everything I want to get away from, but if you asked me what "better" actually looks like
- I’ve got this big goal way out there but no idea what I’m supposed to actually do this week to get closer, so it just sits there as a someday thing and I never move on it.
Practices that may help
- Make process goals behaviorally specific enough to direct attention
A vague process goal ("try harder") is not a process goal — it must specify what to do with your body and attention.
Process Goals, Made Practical - Design process goals that are specific, observable, and within your control
Process goals must be both actionable (you can do them) and observable (you can confirm you did them).
Process vs. Outcome Goals in Sport and Performance - Specify target behaviors precisely before designing any reward system
Contingency management fails when the target behavior is fuzzy — define exactly what earns the reward, in observable terms.
Contingency Management and Token Economies - Preferred Future: Describing Life When the Problem Is Solved
Ask the person to describe in concrete, behavioral detail what life looks like when things are better.
Solution-Focused Brief Therapy: Building On What Works - Decompose distal goals into proximal action plans
Break long-term goals into short-term action plans with specific behavioral targets for this week.
Action Planning - Frame goals as approach-oriented rather than avoidance-oriented
"Become healthy" outperforms "stop being sedentary" — frame goals toward what you want, not away from what you fear.
Goal Systems Theory: How Goals Work Together (and Against Each Other) - Shape complex behaviors through successive approximations
Reinforce progressively closer approximations to the target behavior rather than waiting for the full behavior to appear.
Operant Conditioning and Schedules of Reinforcement - Set if-then implementation intentions for goal behaviors
Specify when, where, and how you’ll act — not just whether you intend to.
Hyperbolic Discounting — Why Future You Always Gets the Short End - Internalize goals you did not choose
Move externally set goals along the spectrum from "have to" toward "value".
Self-Determination Theory, Made Usable - Specific — name the exact behavior or result
Replace “get fit” with a single, concrete target you could photograph or count.
SMART Goals That Actually Move
Related concerns
- Behaviorally Specific Goals
A vague process goal ("try harder") is not a process goal — it must specify what to do with your body and attention.
Make process goals behaviorally specific enough to direct attention
- Concrete Goal Setting
When the skill is new, a "figure out how to do X" goal outperforms "achieve X by date."
Use learning goals instead of performance goals on novel tasks
- Measurable Behavior Goals
Process goals must be both actionable (you can do them) and observable (you can confirm you did them).
Design process goals that are specific, observable, and within your control
- Operationalizing Goals Therapy
For each goal, identify the most likely internal obstacle and plan your response before you need it.
Map the obstacles: WOOP your life-crafting goals
- Specific Difficult Goals
A vague process goal ("try harder") is not a process goal — it must specify what to do with your body and attention.
- Clarify Your Goals
A goal that cannot be stated on a single page is too vague to be evaluated or acted on.
One-minute goals: write them short enough to re-read in a minute
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