Coaching practices for Big Rocks First as a Caregiver
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- I start most mornings just reacting to whatever lands in front of me first, with no clear sense of what actually has to happen today
- The very first thing I do every morning is open my inbox "just to check," and an hour later I’m deep in other people’s requests and my own important work hasn’t been touched
- I love someone who’s struggling and I keep swooping in to manage it all for them, but I’m starting to see that treating them like they can’t handle it might be quietly telling them they can’t
- I know what my priorities are, but they live on a list while my calendar fills up with everyone else’s meetings
- I keep front-loading the dull foundational drills before the person I’m teaching has any sense of what it’s all building toward
Practices that may help
- Big Rocks First
Stephen Covey's "big rocks" framework argues that the most important activities must be scheduled first — before smaller, urgent demands fill the available time. The metaphor holds: if you put sand in the jar first, the rocks don't fit. The method is not about doing more; it is about protecting your most important work from being crowded out by activity that feels urgent but is not truly important. - Identify your rocks before the day begins
Name your 1–3 most important outcomes for today — the rocks that must go in the jar first.
The Pickle Jar Theory of Time Management - Respect the fill-order every single day — rocks before sand
Make it a hard personal rule: no sand, no water, until a rock has been touched today.
The Pickle Jar Theory of Time Management - Trust their capacity to find their own way
Hold the belief that they can move through this — don’t treat them as fragile or as a problem to manage.
Holding Space - Schedule rocks in your calendar before anything else
Block time for your rocks in the first planning step — before reactive commitments fill the day.
The Pickle Jar Theory of Time Management - Recruit and sustain engagement before demanding effort
Connect the task to what the learner already cares about before asking them to work hard on it.
Scaffolding: The Art of Temporary Learning Support - Progressive ruck march load/volume programming
Increase either load or duration each week, never both — the most common programming mistake in rucking is loading too quickly.
Rucking: The Evidence for Loaded Walking - Build a containment or resource before approaching freeze
Establish a felt sense of inner support before approaching any activating material.
The Freeze Response and How to Thaw It - Basic rucking protocol for beginners
Start with 10–15% of body weight in a pack, walk 30 minutes at a brisk pace, and build from there.
Rucking: The Evidence for Loaded Walking - Prepare the ground: get protectors on board first
Before approaching any exiled part, get explicit permission from the protectors guarding it.
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Related concerns
- Big Rocks First As A Parent
Stephen Covey's "big rocks" framework argues that the most important activities must be scheduled first — before smaller, urgent demands fill the available time. The metaphor holds: if you put sand in the jar first, the rocks don't fit. The method is not about doing more; it is about protecting your most important work from being crowded out by activity that feels urgent but is not truly important.
- Big Rocks First For My Teenager
Stephen Covey's "big rocks" framework argues that the most important activities must be scheduled first — before smaller, urgent demands fill the available time. The metaphor holds: if you put sand in the jar first, the rocks don't fit. The method is not about doing more; it is about protecting your most important work from being crowded out by activity that feels urgent but is not truly important.
- Big Rocks First When Starting Out
Stephen Covey's "big rocks" framework argues that the most important activities must be scheduled first — before smaller, urgent demands fill the available time. The metaphor holds: if you put sand in the jar first, the rocks don't fit. The method is not about doing more; it is about protecting your most important work from being crowded out by activity that feels urgent but is not truly important.
- Big Rocks First At Work
Stephen Covey's "big rocks" framework argues that the most important activities must be scheduled first — before smaller, urgent demands fill the available time. The metaphor holds: if you put sand in the jar first, the rocks don't fit. The method is not about doing more; it is about protecting your most important work from being crowded out by activity that feels urgent but is not truly important.
- Big Rocks First Before Bed
Stephen Covey's "big rocks" framework argues that the most important activities must be scheduled first — before smaller, urgent demands fill the available time. The metaphor holds: if you put sand in the jar first, the rocks don't fit. The method is not about doing more; it is about protecting your most important work from being crowded out by activity that feels urgent but is not truly important.
- Big Rocks First Covey
Stephen Covey's "big rocks" framework argues that the most important activities must be scheduled first — before smaller, urgent demands fill the available time. The metaphor holds: if you put sand in the jar first, the rocks don't fit. The method is not about doing more; it is about protecting your most important work from being crowded out by activity that feels urgent but is not truly important.
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