Coaching practices for Bullying in the Workplace Policy

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

• I’ve told my people a hundred times they can disagree with me, but they still don’t
• People share ideas freely, but nobody ever pushes back on me or questions a decision
• I think my boss is about to make the wrong call and I’m biting my tongue to keep the peace, then quietly stewing about it after
• Someone got mocked or shut down in our last meeting and I let it slide to avoid the awkwardness
• In our meetings everyone just nods along and the doubts only come out in private afterward, because being the one who pushes back makes you look like you’re not a team player

Practices that may help

1. Teach speak-up skills, not just encourage speaking up
   Give team members specific language for raising concerns, not just permission to raise them.
   Psychological Safety in Teams
2. Develop challenger safety — dissent and challenge are welcomed, not punished
   Create an environment where questioning decisions, challenging leaders, and dissenting are genuinely safe.
   The Four Stages of Psychological Safety
3. Disagree with your manager constructively
   State your disagreement clearly, give your reasoning, and then commit to the decision — without sacrificing either honesty or loyalty.
   Managing Up: Practical Skills for Working with Your Boss
4. Respond immediately and visibly to safety violations
   When safety is violated — a person is mocked, shut down, or punished for dissent — address it in the moment.
   The Four Stages of Psychological Safety
5. Appoint an explicit devil’s advocate role
   Give one person the formal job of arguing against the plan — making dissent structural, not personal.
   Red Teaming: Stress-Testing Plans Before They Fail
6. Send proactive, brief status updates
   Update your manager on important work before they ask — in the format and frequency they actually want.
   Managing Up: Practical Skills for Working with Your Boss
7. Managing Up: Practical Skills for Working with Your Boss
   Managing up means proactively understanding your manager’s priorities, communication style, and constraints — then adapting how you work and communicate to make the partnership effective. Done well it is collaborative rather than manipulative: it reduces friction, builds trust, and creates space for greater autonomy. The evidence base is primarily organizational behavior research on leader-member exchange and practitioner consensus.
8. Psychological Safety in Teams
   Psychological safety — the shared belief that the team is safe for interpersonal risk-taking — is built through consistent leader behavior: inviting input, responding non-punitively to mistakes, and modeling fallibility. Amy Edmondson’s research links it to learning behaviors and team performance across healthcare, tech, and manufacturing; the causal chain from safety to performance runs through candor and error reporting, not through comfort alone.
9. Communicate your theme-day structure to collaborators
   Let colleagues know which days are off-limits for meetings so the structure is sustainable, not secret.
   Theme Days, Made Practical
10. Reset your perceived availability norm with your team
    Explicitly renegotiate the expectation of instant response — most urgency is not real urgency.
    Technostress: What It Is and How to Manage It

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