Coaching practices for Cognitive Distortions

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  • I’ve got the exact thought written down now, and I can tell it’s skewed somehow, but I want to pin down precisely which kind of twist it is
  • One bad moment and I’m off
  • I’ve caught the exact thought now, and part of me suspects it’s one of those mental tricks my mind keeps pulling, but as long as it stays unnamed it just feels like the plain truth and I can’t get any distance from it.
  • My mind only ever collects the evidence that proves the worst version is true and quietly throws out everything that doesn’t fit
  • The instant something goes a little wrong my mind snaps to the worst read of it as if it’s just plainly true

Practices that may help

  1. Cognitive Distortions: The Thinking Errors Behind Anxiety and Depression
    Cognitive distortions are systematic patterns of inaccurate thinking that maintain anxiety, depression, and low self-esteem — patterns like all-or-nothing thinking, catastrophizing, and mind-reading. David Burns popularized a list of ten common distortions in "Feeling Good," drawing on Aaron Beck’s cognitive therapy. The core claim — that these thought patterns are identifiable, learnable, and correctable through deliberate examination — is well supported by CBT’s strong evidence base.
  2. Identify the cognitive distortion at work
    Label the type of distortion — all-or-nothing, catastrophizing, mind-reading — to reduce its grip.
    Cognitive Restructuring: The CBT Method for Changing Unhelpful Thoughts
  3. Spotting cognitive distortions
    Learn the recurring thinking errors — catastrophizing, all-or-nothing, mind-reading — to label them on sight.
    Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Made Practical
  4. Name the cognitive distortion
    Match the thought to a known thinking trap — catastrophizing, mind-reading, all-or-nothing.
    Cognitive Reframing, Made Practical
  5. Examine the evidence for and against the hot thought
    List what genuinely supports the thought and what genuinely contradicts it — as if building a case in court.
    The Thought Record: CBT’s Core Self-Examination Tool
  6. Cognitive restructuring
    Identify an automatic thought, test it against evidence, and replace it with a more accurate one.
    Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Made Practical
  7. Mental filter (negative attention bias)
    Focus on one negative detail while ignoring the broader positive picture.
    Cognitive Distortions: The Thinking Errors Behind Anxiety and Depression
  8. Overgeneralization
    Draw a sweeping conclusion from one or a few negative events.
    Cognitive Distortions: The Thinking Errors Behind Anxiety and Depression
  9. Mind-reading
    Assume you know what others are thinking, usually negatively, without evidence.
    Cognitive Distortions: The Thinking Errors Behind Anxiety and Depression
  10. Apply self-compassion when restructuring gets harsh
    Use the "friend perspective" to find a tone that challenges distortions without adding shame.
    Cognitive Restructuring: The CBT Method for Changing Unhelpful Thoughts

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