Coaching practices for Cognitive Reappraisal vs Suppression at Work

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• There are situations I know are coming where I’ll be gritting my teeth to hold a feeling down
• I’m about to walk into something where I genuinely can’t let what I’m feeling show
• I walked out of that conversation looking perfectly composed, and I told myself I handled it well
• My whole strategy is to clamp it down and look composed, jaw tight, breath shallow, smiling through it
• Something happened and I’ve locked onto the worst read of it

Practices that may help

1. Cognitive Reappraisal vs. Suppression, Made Practical
   Cognitive reappraisal — changing how you think about a situation to change how it feels — is one of the most robustly supported emotion regulation strategies: it reduces negative emotion without the cognitive and social costs of suppression. Suppression (hiding or pushing down what you feel) reduces visible expression but not inner experience, and carries measurable costs to memory, relationships, and wellbeing. This distinction comes from James Gross’s widely replicated process model of emotion regulation.
2. Replace suppression with upstream reappraisal
   Shift to reappraisal — changing how you think about the event before it generates the emotion you would otherwise suppress.
   The Costs of Expressive Suppression, Made Practical
3. Find alternatives to expressive suppression in high-stakes moments
   When you must manage what you show, use reappraisal or slow your breath rather than white-knuckling the expression down.
   Cognitive Reappraisal vs. Suppression, Made Practical
4. Distinguish suppression from reappraisal in the moment
   Learn to tell when you are actually regulating versus just masking — the experience is different once you know what to look for.
   The Costs of Expressive Suppression, Made Practical
5. Recognize the cost of suppression
   Notice when you’re pushing emotions down — and understand why this strategy is more expensive than it looks.
   Cognitive Reappraisal vs. Suppression, Made Practical
6. Situational reappraisal
   Change how you interpret the situation itself — not the feeling, but the meaning of what is happening.
   Cognitive Reappraisal vs. Suppression, Made Practical
7. Reappraise the meaning of the stressor
   Change what the event means — not to minimize it, but to hold it in a frame that enables functioning.
   Lazarus Appraisal Theory, Made Practical
8. Situation selection
   Choose or avoid situations based on their likely emotional consequences — regulation before the event.
   Cognitive Reappraisal vs. Suppression, Made Practical
9. The Costs of Expressive Suppression, Made Practical
   James Gross’s process model of emotion regulation shows that expressive suppression — hiding or masking emotional expression — reliably reduces visible emotion while increasing physiological arousal, impairing memory for the suppressed event, and taxing the cognitive resources of those in the interaction. Cognitive reappraisal — changing how you interpret the situation — achieves better emotional outcomes without these costs.
10. Account for suppression’s memory cost
    Suppressing emotion during a conversation impairs your memory of it — which has downstream costs to learning, relationships, and decisions.
    The Costs of Expressive Suppression, Made Practical

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