Coaching practices for Control Over Work

Describe almost anything you are working through and IX Coach finds the practices whose real-world fit is closest. For Control Over Work, these are the strongest matches in the current practice library.

Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

• Every part of my day is dictated to me
• I put someone on the hook for the result but kept all the real decisions and the budget myself, so now they have to come ask my permission for every little thing and the whole thing crawls and stalls.
• My people keep stopping to ask permission for small things they’re plainly capable of deciding, and every one of those check-ins slows everything down and quietly tells them I don’t trust them
• My whole day gets dictated by whatever pings in
• At work I’m capable and on top of things, but around my health (or my money, or my relationships) I feel completely at the mercy of whatever happens

Practices that may help

1. Increase autonomy over task, time, technique, and team
   Reclaim control over how you do the work — Pink’s "four T’s".
   Drive: Autonomy, Mastery, and Purpose
2. Transfer authority with the responsibility
   Give people the decision rights and resources the task actually requires.
   Effective Delegation, Made Practical
3. Clarify what people can decide without asking
   Define the fence: what decisions can anyone on the team make without checking in?
   Delegation Levels, Made Practical
4. Pull work rather than having it pushed to you
   Choose your next task when you have capacity, rather than accepting whatever arrives first.
   Personal Kanban, Made Practical
5. Map your locus of control by domain
   Notice that you may feel agentic at work but helpless in health — and target the weak domains specifically.
   Locus of Control: Building a Sense of Agency
6. Separate the doer (R) from the owner (A)
   The person who does the work is often not the person who owns the outcome — make this explicit.
   The RACI Matrix, Made Practical
7. Resist reverse delegation (the "monkey back" problem)
   When a report brings you their monkey, don’t take it — send it back with the next step owned.
   Delegation Levels, Made Practical
8. Protect your sense of autonomy while pursuing the goal
   Keep the goal yours even when a coach, boss, or partner is involved in it.
   Self-Concordant Goals, Made Practical
9. Dedicate a day (or half-day) to administrative work
   Process email, admin, and low-cognitive tasks in a bounded time so they don’t leak into high-value days.
   Theme Days, Made Practical
10. Carve out self-directed time
    Reserve protected time to pursue work you choose, the way innovative teams do.
    Drive: Autonomy, Mastery, and Purpose

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