Coaching practices for Craving Extinction

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

• The craving hits and it feels like it’ll never let up unless I give in
• When the craving hits I get stuck in this endless head-argument
• When a craving hits it feels like it’ll just keep building and building until I cave
• The thing I’m craving lights up so vivid and mouth-watering in my mind
• Every craving still feels like the first one, just as overwhelming as ever

Practices that may help

1. Extinguish conditioned cravings through cue exposure without response
   Repeatedly expose yourself to a craving cue without performing the associated behavior to weaken the conditioned urge.
   Classical Conditioning and Habit Triggers
2. Locate the urge in your body
   Describe where and how the craving shows up physically instead of arguing with it in your head.
   Urge Surfing: Riding the Wave of a Craving
3. Ride the wave to its peak and down
   Watch the urge rise, crest, and fall without acting — like a wave you are surfing.
   Urge Surfing: Riding the Wave of a Craving
4. Cool down a hot temptation by reframing it
   See the reward abstractly ("just a picture of it") to drain its emotional heat.
   Delayed Gratification, Made Practical
5. Build urge tolerance over time
   Deliberately expose yourself to urges without acting on them — tolerance grows with repeated, successful riding.
   Ride the Wave (Urge Management), Made Practical
6. Surf the urge instead of fighting it
   Urges are waves — they rise, peak, and fall without action if you observe rather than fight them.
   The Willpower Instinct: What Self-Control Actually Is
7. Understand the anatomy of an urge
   Learn that urges have a beginning, a peak, and an end — and that acting on or fighting them changes the arc.
   Ride the Wave (Urge Management), Made Practical
8. Urge Surfing: Riding Out the Impulse Without Acting
   Treat an urge to act impulsively like a wave — observe it rise and fall without being swept away.
   The STOP Skill: A DBT Technique for Crisis Moments
9. Urge Surfing: Riding the Wave of a Craving
   Urge surfing means treating a craving like a wave — observing it rise, peak, and fall instead of either fighting it or acting on it. Drawn from Alan Marlatt’s mindfulness-based relapse prevention, it works because urges are time-limited and pass on their own when not fed. It is a well-established clinical technique for everyday cravings; for serious addiction, it belongs alongside professional support, not instead of it.
10. Buy time with a brief delay
    Commit to waiting just ten minutes before acting on the urge.
    Urge Surfing: Riding the Wave of a Craving

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