Coaching practices for Crisis Survival Skills

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

  • When I’m calm I know exactly what helps me, but the second I’m actually in the grip of it my mind goes blank and I can’t remember a single thing to do or even where my stuff is
  • I only ever try to learn how to calm myself down once I’m already in full panic, and of course nothing sticks in that state
  • I’m so flooded right now I can’t think
  • I’ve got one go-to thing I do when I’m overwhelmed and I lean on it for everything, but it doesn’t always land
  • When a real emergency hits

Practices that may help

  1. Prepare your dive-reflex kit before a crisis
    Stock the freezer and brief people in your life before dysregulation peaks — crisis plans work only when made in advance.
    The Dive Reflex, Made Practical
  2. Build coping skills before the storm
    Practice regulation skills in calm times so they’re available — and credible — under pressure.
    Building Resilience, Made Practical
  3. TIPP: Rapid Physiological De-escalation for Intense Distress
    Use Temperature, Intense exercise, Paced breathing, and Paired muscle relaxation to bring crisis-level emotion down quickly.
    The STOP Skill: A DBT Technique for Crisis Moments
  4. Distress Tolerance Skills, Made Practical
    Distress tolerance skills, primarily from DBT, are short-term tools for surviving a crisis — intense emotional pain, overwhelming urges, or acute situational stress — without making things worse. They don’t solve the problem; they get you through the peak so problem-solving becomes possible again. DBT as a whole has strong randomized-trial support, particularly for borderline personality disorder and emotion dysregulation.
  5. Understand TIPP — the full DBT context for this skill
    Temperature is one of four DBT crisis-survival tools (TIPP: Temperature, Intense exercise, Paced breathing, Paired muscle relaxation).
    The Dive Reflex, Made Practical
  6. Protect your Q1 response capacity
    Real crises are handled best by someone who is not already exhausted — Q1 capacity requires Q2 investment.
    The Eisenhower Life Audit
  7. TIPP for crisis distress tolerance
    Use Temperature, Intense exercise, Paced breathing, and Paired muscle relaxation to drop overwhelming arousal fast.
    Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) Skills, Made Practical
  8. Select the specific coping skills you will use — in advance
    Choose which DBT or other coping skills you will deploy at each difficult moment, before you are in it.
    Cope Ahead: DBT’s Method for Preparing for Difficult Situations
  9. IMPROVE the moment
    Use Imagery, Meaning, Prayer, Relaxation, One thing, Vacation, and Encouragement to get through right now.
    Distress Tolerance Skills, Made Practical
  10. Prepare coping self-talk in advance
    Script what you will say to yourself at the trigger, during the peak, and afterward — before you need it.
    Stress Inoculation Training

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