Coaching practices for Daily Reflection

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

  • I’ll do this big thorough reflection once, feel great about it, and then not do it again for three weeks
  • I reflect on my day and feel all these feelings about it, and then tomorrow plays out exactly the same
  • I keep meaning to step back and take stock, but reflection always loses to whatever’s urgent
  • My days just dissolve one into the next with no real reckoning
  • When I look at how I actually behaved today I can only ever do one of two things

Practices that may help

  1. Keep it brief and daily
    Do a short Examen most days rather than a long one occasionally.
    The Daily Examen: Reviewing the Day
  2. Close with a resolve for tomorrow
    End by choosing one concrete intention to carry into the next day.
    The Daily Examen: Reviewing the Day
  3. The Daily Examen: Reviewing the Day
    The Examen is a short, structured evening review from the Ignatian tradition: you replay the day with gratitude and honest attention to where you felt drawn toward or away from your values, then carry one resolve into tomorrow. It is a centuries-old contemplative practice; its benefits are best described as mechanistically plausible and widely reported rather than established by controlled trials.
  4. Build a weekly reflection ritual so the cycle runs regularly
    Schedule a fixed reflection window so the four stages happen as a routine, not an afterthought.
    Structured Reflection: Kolb’s Learning Cycle in Practice
  5. The evening reckoning (examen)
    Audit the day’s actions against your stated intentions — without self-punishment, just honest seeing.
    The Stoic Daily Review
  6. Look honestly at your responses
    Face where you fell short and where you acted well, without spiraling into either.
    The Daily Examen: Reviewing the Day
  7. The daily examen (end-of-day review)
    Spend five minutes each evening reviewing where you were most and least true to yourself today.
    Svadhyaya: Self-Study as a Daily Practice
  8. Close with a forward-looking resolve
    Choose one concrete intention to carry into tomorrow before closing the review.
    The Ignatian Examen: Five Movements of Daily Review
  9. Notice the feelings (consolation and desolation)
    Pay attention to where you felt energized and connected versus drained and pulled away.
    The Daily Examen: Reviewing the Day
  10. Become aware of God’s presence and give thanks
    Open the review by pausing, settling, and naming specific gifts from the day.
    The Ignatian Examen: Five Movements of Daily Review

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