Coaching practices for Emotional Regulation During Performance

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

• I start in exactly the right state but somewhere as the event grinds on
• Everyone tells me to get calm and positive before I perform, but honestly some of my best moments came when I was actually a little angry or on edge
• Everyone tells me to "just stay calm" before the big moment, but calm leaves me flat and underpowered
• The moment I’m up there performing, my head fills with "how do I look, am I blowing this, what are they thinking"
• Right before I go on, my heart is pounding and my hands are shaking and I read all of it as a sign I’m about to fall apart

Practices that may help

1. Monitor zone status during competition and intervene early
   Develop the habit of checking your emotional state at key points during competition and micro-regulating back toward zone.
   The Zone of Optimal Functioning: Hanin’s IZOF Model
2. Expand the IZOF profile to include positive and negative emotions
   Map which emotions — not just anxiety — are functional for your performance, and which are dysfunctional.
   The Zone of Optimal Functioning: Hanin’s IZOF Model
3. Regulate emotional tone as part of performance preparation
   Identify the specific emotional tone (challenged, confident, competitive, calm) your IPS requires — and practice producing it.
   The Ideal Performance State, Made Practical
4. Shift to task-focused attention under performance anxiety
   Redirect attention from self-monitoring and outcome worry to the specific process cues of the task at hand.
   Attentional Deployment, Made Practical
5. Reappraise physiological arousal as activation, not anxiety
   Tell yourself "I’m excited" rather than "I’m nervous" — the physiology is identical; the label changes performance.
   The Clutch State: Performing Under Pressure
6. Match your routine’s arousal level to the task demand
   Fine-tune whether your routine should up-regulate or down-regulate your energy before the performance.
   Pre-Performance Routines, Made Practical
7. De-activation Strategies for Over-Arousal
   Use targeted techniques to reduce arousal when anxiety or over-activation is undermining performance.
   The Yerkes-Dodson Law: Finding Your Optimal Performance Zone
8. Distinguish suppression from reappraisal in the moment
   Learn to tell when you are actually regulating versus just masking — the experience is different once you know what to look for.
   The Costs of Expressive Suppression, Made Practical
9. Name the emotions the situation will likely produce
   Predict which feelings will show up and at what intensity — so they are not surprises when they arrive.
   Cope Ahead: DBT’s Method for Preparing for Difficult Situations
10. Situation selection
    Choose or avoid situations based on their likely emotional consequences — regulation before the event.
    Cognitive Reappraisal vs. Suppression, Made Practical

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