Coaching practices for Examples Before Rules
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- When I’m handed the rule up front it goes in one ear and out the other, but when I’ve been wrestling with the examples first and then the principle clicks, that’s the version that actually stays with me.
- I know real life needs the occasional exception, but every time I allow one in the moment it somehow becomes "well, today counts too"
- I’m staring at a case where following the rule to the letter would clearly produce the wrong result
- A rule of thumb that served me brilliantly in one area keeps failing me somewhere else, and I can’t figure out why
- I’m about to bet a big plan on the way things have always worked, and a quiet voice is asking whether the ground rules here could just shift out from under me
Practices that may help
- Expose examples before naming the rule (inductive first)
Present several cases before stating the principle; let the learner induce the pattern.
Concrete Examples: How to Make Abstract Ideas Stick - Define exceptions in advance, in writing
A bright line with a pre-written exception stays bright; an improvised exception breaks it.
Bright-Line Rules: When "None" Beats "Some" - Practice equity: bend general rules to particular cases
Apply rules with awareness that no rule perfectly fits every situation; the wise person corrects for the fit.
Phronesis: Aristotle’s Practical Wisdom - Match your heuristic to the structure of the environment
A good rule works because it matches the statistical regularities of the environment — wrong environment, wrong rule.
Simple Heuristics: Gerd Gigerenzer’s Case for Fast and Frugal Thinking - Check whether the rules of your domain are actually stable
Before applying any probability model, ask whether the rules governing outcomes could change mid-game.
The Ludic Fallacy: When You Mistake Real Life for a Game - Accumulate varied situational episodes to move from novice to competent
Build a library of real cases — not just more rules — to develop situational recognition.
The Dreyfus Model: Five Stages from Novice to Expert - Make the line and its crossings visible
A bright line only works if you can clearly tell when it is crossed — so track it.
Bright-Line Rules: When "None" Beats "Some" - Use multiple varied examples to map the concept’s true shape
Three different examples reveal what one example hides — the edges of the concept.
Concrete Examples: How to Make Abstract Ideas Stick - Bright-Line Rules: When "None" Beats "Some"
A bright-line rule is a clear, unambiguous limit with no judgment calls — "no alcohol on weekdays" rather than "drink less." They are easier to keep than willpower-by-degrees because they remove the in-the-moment negotiation where self-control breaks down. The idea draws on real research into decision fatigue, ego depletion debates, and the difficulty of moderation, though "bright-line rule" itself is a heuristic borrowed from law. - Question what moves and operations are permitted
Challenge the implicit rules about which actions are allowed — often the "forbidden" move is the solution.
Constraint Relaxation: Escaping the Walls You Built Yourself
Related concerns
- Flexible Vs Rigid Rules
Rigid all-or-nothing rules can fuel disordered patterns — use them with judgment.
Know when a bright line backfires
- When Dreyfus Skill Model Accumulate Contextual Episodes
Build a library of real cases — not just more rules — to develop situational recognition.
Accumulate varied situational episodes to move from novice to competent
- How To Make A Clear Rule
A bright line only works if you can clearly tell when it is crossed — so track it.
Make the line and its crossings visible
- Production Rules Expertise
Build a library of real cases — not just more rules — to develop situational recognition.
- Rocks Before Sand Rule
Stephen Covey's "big rocks" framework argues that the most important activities must be scheduled first — before smaller, urgent demands fill the available time. The metaphor holds: if you put sand in the jar first, the rocks don't fit. The method is not about doing more; it is about protecting your most important work from being crowded out by activity that feels urgent but is not truly important.
- Rule Following Judgment
Apply rules with awareness that no rule perfectly fits every situation; the wise person corrects for the fit.
Practice equity: bend general rules to particular cases
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