Coaching practices for Existentialism and Radical Choice as a Caregiver

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

  • There’s a decision I keep half-defending with a fog of "well, the circumstances, the other people, what else could I have done"
  • I’m facing a real decision and I realize I’m about to choose what my family or my role or "what one does" expects of me, not what I actually value
  • When a genuinely open choice is in front of me
  • I describe my life in "I have to" and "I have no choice," and it lets me off the hook
  • This thing is not going to change no matter what I do, and I’m so tired of being told to fight it

Practices that may help

  1. Existentialism and Radical Choice
    Jean-Paul Sartre’s existentialism holds that human beings have no fixed nature — "existence precedes essence" — and are therefore radically free to define themselves through their choices. The practical implication is that you cannot hide behind role, instinct, or circumstance: you are always already choosing, including when you tell yourself you have no choice. This is philosophical rather than clinical; its overlap with ACT and CBT is real but indirect.
  2. Take radical responsibility for your choices
    Own every choice completely — including its unintended consequences and the unchosen conditions within which you chose.
    Existentialism and Radical Choice
  3. Choose authentically — from your own values, not from expectation
    Make choices that reflect your actual values rather than the role others have assigned you.
    Existentialism and Radical Choice
  4. Sit with the anxiety of freedom
    When the weight of choice produces vertigo, use it as a signal — not a problem to escape.
    Existentialism and Radical Choice
  5. Spot bad faith in yourself
    Notice when you are treating yourself as a thing determined by role, instinct, or expectation — and claim the choice.
    Existentialism and Radical Choice
  6. Choose your attitude toward unavoidable suffering
    When you cannot change your circumstances, the stance you take toward them is itself a form of meaning.
    Meaning-Centered Therapy, Made Practical
  7. Find the attitudinal value in unavoidable suffering
    When suffering cannot be eliminated, the last freedom is choosing your attitude toward it.
    Logotherapy
  8. Find the attitudinal value in what cannot be changed
    When a situation cannot be changed, the remaining freedom is the quality of your response to it.
    Frankl’s Three Sources of Meaning
  9. Exercise the last human freedom
    Between what happens to you and your response, there is a space — and your freedom lives there.
    Man’s Search for Meaning, Made Practical
  10. Treat meaning as a responsibility, not a feeling
    Meaning is not something that happens to you — it is something you are responsible for creating.
    Meaning-Centered Therapy, Made Practical

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