Coaching practices for Expectancy Value Theory Why You Try or Don T After a Loss

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  • I just don’t believe I can do this, and no amount of "you’ve got this" or hyping myself up moves that conviction an inch
  • I keep passing on bets that are clearly worth it over the long run, because the sting of the likely small loss looms so much larger than the rare big win
  • The math says this bet is worth taking, but if it goes wrong the loss would genuinely wreck me
  • I was sure the win was coming and it didn’t
  • Even when something goes really well I brush it off as luck or good timing, so the win never actually counts toward believing in myself

Practices that may help

  1. Expectancy-Value Theory: Why You Try (or Don’t)
    Jacquelynne Eccles’s expectancy-value theory proposes that motivation to pursue a task is jointly determined by two factors: expectancy (your belief that you can succeed) and value (how much you care about success). Both are required — high value with low expectancy produces anxiety and avoidance; high expectancy with low value produces competent indifference. The theory has a substantial empirical base primarily in academic achievement contexts, with reasonable generalisation to broader life domains.
  2. Build expectancy through mastery experiences, not just affirmations
    Expectancy — the belief that you can succeed — grows from actual small wins, not self-talk.
    Expectancy-Value Theory: Why You Try (or Don’t)
  3. Accept positive-EV decisions even when they feel uncomfortable
    If the expected value is clearly positive, take the decision — even if most individual outcomes are losses.
    Expected Value Thinking: Deciding Under Uncertainty
  4. Adjust raw expected value for risk aversion on large stakes
    A 50% chance of losing everything is not equivalent to a certain 50% loss — adjust for your actual risk tolerance.
    Expected Value Thinking: Deciding Under Uncertainty
  5. Actively manage the dopamine dip when a reward doesn’t arrive
    Disappointment is a prediction error in reverse — acknowledge it instead of pushing through it.
    Reward Prediction Error: Using Dopamine Science to Stay Motivated
  6. Run a structured mastery debrief after each performance
    Immediately after any significant attempt, extract what worked before the memory fades.
    Mastery Experiences
  7. Raise your expectancy of success before starting
    Boost confidence that effort will actually lead to a good outcome — low expectancy is a core driver of delay.
    The Procrastination Equation, Made Practical
  8. Diagnose whether you are stuck on expectancy or value
    Before trying to motivate yourself, identify which of the two factors is actually low.
    Expectancy-Value Theory: Why You Try (or Don’t)
  9. Socialise your values and expectations to reduce hidden motivation barriers
    Others’s expectations and transmitted values shape whether you believe you belong in a domain — making implicit messages explicit clears hidden motivation blocks.
    Expectancy-Value Theory: Why You Try (or Don’t)
  10. Reduce the perceived cost of the task, not just increase its value
    High cost — effort, anxiety, or opportunity cost — can cancel even genuinely valued tasks; reducing cost is a motivation lever that is often overlooked.
    Expectancy-Value Theory: Why You Try (or Don’t)

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