Coaching practices for Fear Ladder
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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?
- The thing I’m scared of sits in my mind as one giant wall of dread, and just thinking about facing it freezes me
- Even when I face the thing and nothing bad happens, my mind just shrugs it off as "I got lucky this time" and the dread stays exactly the same
- The fear feels like one solid wall I either climb all at once or not at all, so I keep not at all
- I can only handle the scary situation if I’ve got my little crutch
- I’m finally ready to face this fear, but when I picture confronting the whole thing head-on I freeze
Practices that may help
- The Fear Ladder: Graded Exposure Made Practical
A fear ladder ranks feared situations from least to most distressing and has you face them in order, from bottom to top. Repeated, systematic exposure to each step without avoidance teaches the brain that the feared situation is survivable, gradually extinguishing the anxiety response. This is one of the best-supported techniques in the anxiety literature. - Build an exposure hierarchy
List every feared situation and rank them by distress (0–100) before you do anything else.
The Fear Ladder: Graded Exposure Made Practical - Set realistic expectations before each exposure
Before you enter the situation, write down your feared prediction — then check it against reality afterward.
The Fear Ladder: Graded Exposure Made Practical - Build an anxiety hierarchy
List feared situations from least to most distressing before any exposure begins.
Counter-Conditioning and Systematic Desensitization - Gradually drop safety behaviors
Safety behaviors (a phone, a companion, a pill) reduce distress in the moment but prevent the learning that exposure is meant to produce.
The Fear Ladder: Graded Exposure Made Practical - Build a fear hierarchy
List feared situations from mildly anxiety-provoking to most feared, then work up from the bottom.
Exposure Therapy: Facing Fears to Shrink Them - Stay in the situation until anxiety drops
Remain in the feared situation long enough for distress to fall — leaving early teaches the wrong lesson.
The Fear Ladder: Graded Exposure Made Practical - Move up only when the current step is manageable
Advance to the next rung when peak distress on the current one is consistently below 30 SUDs — not before.
The Fear Ladder: Graded Exposure Made Practical - Compare the feared risk to risks you already accept
Calibrate a new fear by comparing it to baseline risks you live with without anxiety.
Availability Cascades: How Fears Spread and Inflate - Build an avoidance hierarchy
List the situations, places, people, and thoughts you avoid — ordered from least to most feared.
Prolonged Exposure Therapy: Principles, Practices, and the Evidence
Related concerns
- The Fear Ladder Graded Exposure Made Practical Before Bed
A fear ladder ranks feared situations from least to most distressing and has you face them in order, from bottom to top. Repeated, systematic exposure to each step without avoidance teaches the brain that the feared situation is survivable, gradually extinguishing the anxiety response. This is one of the best-supported techniques in the anxiety literature.
- The Fear Ladder Graded Exposure Made Practical During A Big Change
A fear ladder ranks feared situations from least to most distressing and has you face them in order, from bottom to top. Repeated, systematic exposure to each step without avoidance teaches the brain that the feared situation is survivable, gradually extinguishing the anxiety response. This is one of the best-supported techniques in the anxiety literature.
- The Fear Ladder Graded Exposure Made Practical With Friends
A fear ladder ranks feared situations from least to most distressing and has you face them in order, from bottom to top. Repeated, systematic exposure to each step without avoidance teaches the brain that the feared situation is survivable, gradually extinguishing the anxiety response. This is one of the best-supported techniques in the anxiety literature.
- Exposure Hierarchy
List feared situations from mildly anxiety-provoking to most feared, then work up from the bottom.
Build a fear hierarchy
- Exposure Hierarchy Steps
List feared situations from least to most distressing before any exposure begins.
Build an anxiety hierarchy
- Fear Hierarchy
List feared situations from mildly anxiety-provoking to most feared, then work up from the bottom.
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