Coaching practices for Forming Stage Leadership
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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?
- I just took over a brand-new team and everyone’s being polite and looking to me for everything
- My team feels off and I keep reacting to each flare-up as its own thing, but I can’t actually say what phase we’re in
- My team is genuinely running well without me now, but I keep inserting myself into decisions they could make
- I’ve been pouring energy into vision and inspiration and it’s landing as hollow
- Where I come alive is in the human glue
Practices that may help
- Forming: provide clarity before connection
In the first stage, a new team needs structure and purpose more than it needs team-building.
Tuckman’s Stages of Team Development - Diagnose which stage your team is in
Name the stage you’re in before you pick a leadership response.
Tuckman’s Stages of Team Development - Performing: step back and protect the conditions
A Performing team needs air cover and resources, not direction.
Tuckman’s Stages of Team Development - Coaching — high direction and high support for the disillusioned learner
When early enthusiasm dips but skill is still forming, combine clear guidance with active encouragement.
Situational Leadership, Made Practical - Establish transactional reliability before adding transformational layers
Clear expectations, fair consequences, and reliable follow-through must come before vision and inspiration.
Transformational Leadership, Made Practical - Tuckman’s Stages of Team Development
Bruce Tuckman’s model describes four stages every team moves through — Forming, Storming, Norming, and Performing — before optionally Adjourning. The stages are a useful diagnostic map for leaders: friction in a new team is usually normal Storming, not a personnel problem. - Supporting — step back on direction, stay high on support
For the capable-but-cautious performer, lighten the instructions and bolster their confidence.
Situational Leadership, Made Practical - Lead from the relationship building domain — hold the team together
People strong in relationship building are the glue that holds a team’s cohesion under pressure.
Strengths-Based Leadership, Made Practical - Distribute leadership rather than centralizing it
Develop leadership capacity throughout the team, not just in the designated leader.
Transformational Leadership, Made Practical - Lead from the influencing domain — take charge, speak up, make sure others are heard
People strong in influencing sell the team’s ideas inside and outside the organization.
Strengths-Based Leadership, Made Practical
Related concerns
- Team Leadership Stages
Name the stage you’re in before you pick a leadership response.
Diagnose which stage your team is in
- Supporting Leadership Style
The skill the model actually demands is style range — most leaders overuse one default.
Build the flexibility to switch styles
- Adjourning Stage Team
How a team ends shapes how each member begins the next one.
Adjourning: close the team with intention
- Creative Leadership
People strong in strategic thinking keep the team focused on what could be, not just what is.
Lead from the strategic thinking domain — absorb and analyze information
- Does Situational Leadership Work
Situational Leadership, developed by Paul Hersey and Ken Blanchard, says the right leadership style depends on the follower’s readiness for a given task: match how much you direct versus support to where the person actually is. It is enormously popular in corporate training, but its empirical support is genuinely weak — treat it as a useful thinking tool, not a validated law.
- Forming Storming Norming Performing
Bruce Tuckman’s model describes four stages every team moves through — Forming, Storming, Norming, and Performing — before optionally Adjourning. The stages are a useful diagnostic map for leaders: friction in a new team is usually normal Storming, not a personnel problem.
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