Coaching practices for Graded Exposure Pacing

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  • When I make myself face the hard thing my body goes straight to full panic
  • After one decent day I get impatient and want to jump straight to the hardest thing to prove I’m over this
  • When I do let myself feel a hard sensation I stay with it way too long, like I have to tough it out, until it tips over and swamps me
  • Every time I get near the place that scares me I bolt the second the panic spikes, and the relief is instant
  • The moment I let myself feel the tight, awful sensation, it swallows me whole and I can’t find my way back out

Practices that may help

  1. Use controlled breathing to manage arousal during exposure
    A brief, slow-breathing technique modulates arousal during difficult exposure moments.
    Prolonged Exposure Therapy: Principles, Practices, and the Evidence
  2. Prolonged Exposure Therapy: Principles, Practices, and the Evidence
    Prolonged Exposure (PE), developed by Edna Foa, is one of the most rigorously studied treatments for PTSD, with consistent randomized trial support across populations. The core mechanism is extinction learning: repeated, systematic contact with trauma-related cues in a safe context teaches the brain that those cues no longer predict danger. The full PE protocol — including imaginal and in vivo exposure — requires a trained therapist; the underlying principles of graduated, systematic approach to avoided cues can be applied in coached or self-guided contexts for sub-clinical fear and avoidance.
  3. Move up only when the current step is manageable
    Advance to the next rung when peak distress on the current one is consistently below 30 SUDs — not before.
    The Fear Ladder: Graded Exposure Made Practical
  4. Keep each dose short — leave before flooding
    Spend 10–30 seconds with a difficult sensation, then retreat to your resource before escalation — deliberately underdoing the exposure.
    Titration in Somatic Practice, Made Practical
  5. Approach avoided situations systematically (in vivo exposure)
    Deliberately enter feared but objectively safe situations, stay long enough for fear to reduce, and repeat.
    Prolonged Exposure Therapy: Principles, Practices, and the Evidence
  6. Brief touch and return — the basic pendulation move
    Direct attention briefly toward a difficult sensation, then consciously return to your resource — stay only as long as you can track it without flooding.
    Pendulation, Made Practical
  7. Build a personal sensation hierarchy
    Map which panic sensations frighten you most, then order them from mildest to most feared.
    Interoceptive Exposure for Panic
  8. Understand imaginal exposure: revisiting the traumatic memory deliberately
    Imaginal exposure has the person revisit the traumatic memory in detail to allow the brain to process it as a past event.
    Prolonged Exposure Therapy: Principles, Practices, and the Evidence
  9. Build pace gradually — 1 stroke/second before going faster
    Start at one stroke per second and add pace only when the abdomen leads cleanly at the current rate.
    Kapalbhati Pranayama, Made Practical
  10. Process cognitions after an exposure session
    After each imaginal exposure, discuss what came up — the stuck meanings and beliefs — not just the distress level.
    Prolonged Exposure Therapy: Principles, Practices, and the Evidence

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