Coaching practices for Grounding After Emdr

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

  • Last time a memory finally felt settled, but the week since stirred things up
  • My head says I’ve dealt with it, but my body didn’t get the message
  • When I bring the memory up it’s still as vivid and loud as the day it happened, like no time has passed at all
  • I plunge straight into turning my attention inward and then straight back out into my day, and the abrupt jolt on either end leaves me raw and untethered
  • The memory finally doesn’t sting the way it used to, but the belief it left behind is still running the show

Practices that may help

  1. Reevaluation at the Start of Each Session
    Begin every new EMDR session by checking whether last session’s gains held — and what emerged in between.
    EMDR: Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing
  2. Body Scan and Session Closure
    Sweep attention through the body after processing to catch residual tension before closing the session.
    EMDR: Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing
  3. Bilateral Stimulation During Active Processing
    Hold the distressing memory in mind while tracking rhythmic left-right stimulation — and notice what shifts.
    EMDR: Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing
  4. EMDR Safe Place, Made Practical
    The safe place (or calm place) is a visualization and self-soothing technique from EMDR therapy (Francine Shapiro) used to help a person quickly access a felt sense of safety and calm. In EMDR protocol it is a resourcing step before trauma reprocessing; used independently it is an emotion regulation tool accessible to anyone. EMDR as a whole has strong evidence particularly for PTSD; the safe-place technique specifically has limited direct study outside the protocol but is broadly consistent with imagery and self-regulation research.
  5. Ground before and after any mindfulness practice
    Use brief orienting and sensory grounding before entering inward attention and after leaving it.
    Trauma-Sensitive Mindfulness, Made Practical
  6. Grounding Techniques for Acute Distress
    Grounding techniques are quick sensory and attentional skills — like 5-4-3-2-1, orienting to the room, or holding something cold — that pull attention out of a spiraling mind and into the safe present, lowering acute arousal. They are widely used clinical stabilization tools and are low-risk and practical, though most are taught as established practice rather than tested as isolated interventions. They manage distress in the moment; they are not a treatment for the underlying cause.
  7. Installation of the Positive Cognition
    Once distress has cleared, strengthen the preferred self-belief with bilateral stimulation.
    EMDR: Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing
  8. Safe Place Installation
    Anchor a vivid, calming mental image you can return to when distress spikes during processing.
    EMDR: Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing
  9. Ground and orient to the present
    Use feet, contact, and a slow look around the room to re-anchor in the safe here-and-now.
    Somatic Experiencing, Honestly Explained
  10. Adapt the image when it stops feeling safe
    If the safe place loses its felt quality, investigate what changed and revise rather than abandoning the practice.
    EMDR Safe Place, Made Practical

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