Coaching practices for Hadot Attitude Behavior Gap
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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?
- On paper I know exactly the kind of person I want to be and what I believe, but when I watch how I actually behaved this week there’s an embarrassing gap between the two, and the knowing clearly hasn’t closed it.
- I keep telling myself I’m basically living in line with what I care about, but if I’m brutally honest about my actual behavior the last couple of weeks, I suspect I’m way further from the center than I let myself admit
- I look at the people a level above me in my field and assume they have some talent I just don’t have, so I never really start
- I get to the end of the day and realize I was barely there for any of it
- Some days I do it without thinking and other days I just can’t get over the hump, and the maddening part is nothing obvious changed
Practices that may help
- Live what you study
Make your practice your philosophy — not a separate reading life and a separate daily life.
Philosophy as a Way of Life - Rate your current position in each domain
Mark on each domain’s bullseye how closely your recent behavior has matched the value — honestly.
Values Bullseye, Made Practical - Close the gap between where you are and the next level through daily invisible work
The distance between average and above-average is usually many small daily disciplines, not one large talent gap.
The Slight Edge: Jeff Olson’s Philosophy of Consistent Small Actions - Attention to the present moment (prosoche)
Practice "prosoche" — continuous, vigilant attention to what you are actually doing and thinking, right now.
Philosophy as a Way of Life - Understand the action line — the threshold where behavior fires
Every behavior has a required minimum of motivation × ability; staying above that action line is the design goal.
The Fogg Behavior Model, Made Practical - Extending non-harming to daily choices
Apply the ahimsa lens to one domain of daily life — diet, speech, consumption — and make one concrete adjustment.
Ahimsa: Non-Violence as a Daily Practice - Values compass check: is this action moving toward or away?
Before committing to a behavior, ask whether it moves toward or away from your stated values.
Values-Based Action (ACT), Made Practical - The Stoic Discipline of Action
Pierre Hadot identified the "discipline of action" as the second of three Stoic spiritual exercises: acting in service of the community and common good, while holding the outcome loosely with a "reserve clause." It trains deliberate, values-aligned action that is not derailed by outcome-dependency — a practical answer to the problem of acting well in an uncertain world. - Prosoche — the practice of attention
Maintain constant, vigilant attention to your own thoughts, judgments, and impulses as they arise.
Pierre Hadot’s Spiritual Exercises - Engineer your physical environment to create opportunity
Rearrange space, tools, and access so the desired behavior is the path of least resistance.
The COM-B Model and Behavior Change Wheel
Related concerns
- Pierre Hadot Action
Pierre Hadot showed that ancient philosophy was not primarily a set of doctrines to be believed but a collection of "spiritual exercises" — daily practices that transformed perception, desire, and action. The exercises include attention to the present moment, self-examination, meditation on death, the view from above, and physical dialogue — each designed to change not what you know but who you are.
- Hadot Exercises Ancient Philosophy
Pierre Hadot showed that ancient philosophy was not primarily a set of doctrines to be believed but a collection of "spiritual exercises" — daily practices that transformed perception, desire, and action. The exercises include attention to the present moment, self-examination, meditation on death, the view from above, and physical dialogue — each designed to change not what you know but who you are.
- Ancient Philosophy Practices
Pierre Hadot argued that ancient Greek and Roman philosophy — Stoic, Epicurean, Platonic — was not primarily a system of theories but a set of "spiritual exercises": repeated, structured practices for transforming how you perceive, judge, and live. The academic thesis is Hadot’s own and is well established in classical scholarship. The practices he describes overlap with studied mechanisms in mindfulness, CBT, and behavioral change — though that was not Hadot’s own claim.
- Attention To Present Moment Hadot
Practice "prosoche" — continuous, vigilant attention to what you are actually doing and thinking, right now.
Attention to the present moment (prosoche)
- Care Vs Compliance Morality
Let care for others — not fear of violation — be the engine of your moral conduct.
Ground ethics in love and compassion, not rule compliance
- Competence Habit Design
Treat habit formation as a series of small experiments rather than a commitment you either keep or blow.
Apply PDSA to a behavior you want to build or break
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