Coaching practices for Holding Space at Work
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- I try to do my real work in the exact same spot, on the same screen, where I answer email and scroll and take calls
- The second someone goes quiet in a heavy conversation, I rush to fill the gap with reassurance or another question
- Every gap in my day, every pause in a conversation, I rush to fill — and I’ve got a nagging sense that all this packed busyness is exactly why nothing new ever has room to surface in me.
- Guarding my focus time makes me feel guilty and a little unreachable, like I’m leaving people stranded
- Someone I love opens up about something hard and I’m already three solutions deep before they finish
Practices that may help
- Holding Space
Holding space means staying present with another person’s emotion without trying to fix it, judge it, or make it about you — offering a steady, non-reactive presence so they can feel what they feel and find their own way through. It works because a regulated, accepting presence helps co-regulate the other person’s nervous system; the term itself is practitioner language rather than a studied construct, but its components draw on solid clinical practice. - Define your territory: where creative work belongs
Name the specific space, time, and conditions that constitute your creative work territory and defend them.
The War of Art, Made Practical - Tolerate the silence
Let pauses sit; silence gives the person room to feel and to find their own words.
Holding Space - Find the use of empty space
Create deliberate emptiness — in your schedule, your mind, your output — and let it do its work.
Wu Wei — the Practice of Effortless Action - Offer office hours to concentrate collaboration
Designate one or two open windows per day when collaborators can reach you freely, then protect everything else.
Maker vs Manager Schedule - Resist the urge to fix
When someone shares pain, default to presence, not problem-solving.
Holding Space - Use a body double for low-initiation tasks
Work in the physical or virtual presence of another person to borrow their initiation momentum.
Task Initiation: Overcoming the Start Problem - Trust their capacity to find their own way
Hold the belief that they can move through this — don’t treat them as fragile or as a problem to manage.
Holding Space - Get "being away" psychological distance
Use a setting that feels removed from your usual demands, not just physically different.
Attention Restoration in Nature - Protecting unscheduled time
Leave deliberate gaps in the calendar instead of filling every hour.
Slow Living, Made Practical
Related concerns
- Holding Space
Holding space means staying present with another person’s emotion without trying to fix it, judge it, or make it about you — offering a steady, non-reactive presence so they can feel what they feel and find their own way through. It works because a regulated, accepting presence helps co-regulate the other person’s nervous system; the term itself is practitioner language rather than a studied construct, but its components draw on solid clinical practice.
- Holding Space In A New Job
Holding space means staying present with another person’s emotion without trying to fix it, judge it, or make it about you — offering a steady, non-reactive presence so they can feel what they feel and find their own way through. It works because a regulated, accepting presence helps co-regulate the other person’s nervous system; the term itself is practitioner language rather than a studied construct, but its components draw on solid clinical practice.
- Holding Space When Overwhelmed
Set down each burden one by one to find the calm place underneath them.
Clear a space
- Holding Space When Starting Out
Holding space means staying present with another person’s emotion without trying to fix it, judge it, or make it about you — offering a steady, non-reactive presence so they can feel what they feel and find their own way through. It works because a regulated, accepting presence helps co-regulate the other person’s nervous system; the term itself is practitioner language rather than a studied construct, but its components draw on solid clinical practice.
- How To Hold Space For Someone
Holding space means staying present with another person’s emotion without trying to fix it, judge it, or make it about you — offering a steady, non-reactive presence so they can feel what they feel and find their own way through. It works because a regulated, accepting presence helps co-regulate the other person’s nervous system; the term itself is practitioner language rather than a studied construct, but its components draw on solid clinical practice.
- Asking Family Members To Respect My Space
A solo foyer commitment is willpower; a shared household norm is architecture.
Get buy-in from others who share your home
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