Coaching practices for How Many Habits to Start at Once

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  • I get fired up and try to start five new habits at once because they all feel important, and within a few weeks every single one has collapsed
  • I get excited and try to overhaul everything at once
  • Every time I try to get organized I try to overhaul everything at once, and a week later the whole thing has collapsed because it was too much to keep up
  • I always launch a "new me" with five or six changes at once, spread myself paper-thin across all of them, and within two weeks every single one has quietly collapsed because none got enough of me to stick.
  • I want to fix so much about my life at once

Practices that may help

  1. Run one chain at a time to prevent dilution
    Start a second chain only after the first has run for at least 30 days without breaking.
    The Seinfeld Strategy: Don’t Break the Chain
  2. Start with a maximum of three mini habits simultaneously
    More than three mini habits at once means none of them are truly mini — the simplicity is the point.
    Mini Habits, Made Practical
  3. Build the capture habit before anything else
    Install one habit at a time — start with ubiquitous capture — before adding other ZTD practices.
    Zen To Done (ZTD), Made Practical
  4. Change one thing, not everything
    Concentrate all your behavior-change budget on a single keystone instead of spreading it thin.
    Keystone Habits: The Few Changes That Cascade
  5. Focus on keystone habits
    Change one high-leverage habit that cascades into other positive changes.
    The Power of Habit, Made Practical
  6. Locate your single highest-leverage habit
    Pick the one behavior whose presence seems to make several other good behaviors easier.
    Keystone Habits: The Few Changes That Cascade
  7. Shrink the habit until it is guaranteed
    Cut the behavior down until skipping it would be more effort than doing it.
    Micro Habits: Start Absurdly Small
  8. Find the 20% of habits driving 80% of your wellbeing
    Survey your routines to discover which few habits produce most of your energy, mood, and focus.
    The Pareto Principle: 80/20 for Personal Productivity
  9. Shrink the behavior until it’s tiny
    Scale the habit down to something you can do even on your worst, busiest day.
    Tiny Habits, Made Practical
  10. Install target behaviors in the new context from day one
    Begin the desired habit in the new environment before the new context develops its own competing cues.
    The Habit Discontinuity Effect

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