Coaching practices for How to Be More Mindful and Present

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

  • Whenever I try to be present I end up grading myself
  • I’m hardly ever actually here
  • My head is almost never actually here
  • I’ll surface from a meditation realizing I drifted off ten minutes ago and was completely gone the whole time
  • I’m nodding along in conversations but my mind is already somewhere else

Practices that may help

  1. The attitudes of mindfulness
    Cultivate the inner stances — non-judging, patience, beginner’s mind, acceptance, letting go — that make attention healing rather than harsh.
    Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction (MBSR)
  2. Contact with the present moment
    Bring flexible attention to here and now, instead of being lost in past or future.
    Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Made Practical
  3. Anchor attention to the present moment deliberately
    When the mind pulls to past regret or future worry, redirect to what is actually here.
    Psychological Flexibility, Made Practical
  4. Develop introspective metacognition
    Train the ability to notice, in real time, when attention has wandered — before you’ve been distracted for a long time.
    Shamatha: The Buddhist Practice of Calm Abiding
  5. Cultivate presence
    Be fully here — undivided attention is the rarest and most flattering gift you can give.
    The Charisma Myth, Made Practical
  6. Entering the present moment
    Drop attention out of past and future and into direct sensory contact with now.
    The Power of Now, In Practice
  7. Absorb the present — slow down and attend fully
    Pause whatever you’re doing and engage all your senses with the experience that is happening right now.
    Savoring the Moment, Made Practical
  8. Ground before and after any mindfulness practice
    Use brief orienting and sensory grounding before entering inward attention and after leaving it.
    Trauma-Sensitive Mindfulness, Made Practical
  9. Bring contemplative attention to ordinary moments
    Practice full presence in mundane activities as a form of sacred attentiveness.
    The Perennial Philosophy, Made Practical
  10. Feeling the inner body
    Sense the subtle aliveness inside the body as a stable anchor for presence.
    The Power of Now, In Practice

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