Coaching practices for How to Cope with Change at Work
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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?
- I keep selling this change as a clear win and can’t understand why people are dragging their feet
- When I push my team on the hard stuff they either shut down and start blaming each other or just nod and carry on as before
- Once the hard thing is over I just want to bury it and never think about it again
- There’s a real part of this I could actually do something about, but instead of acting I just sit and stew in how I feel about it
- Everyone brings their problems to me to solve, I jump in and fix each one, and now I’m the bottleneck for everything while my people never grow
Practices that may help
- Name the loss the adaptive challenge requires
Explicitly acknowledge what people must give up — not just what they will gain.
Adaptive Leadership, Made Practical - Regulate the level of distress in the system
Keep productive pressure high enough to motivate change but low enough to prevent shutdown.
Adaptive Leadership, Made Practical - Review what happened after the event to refine the next cope ahead
Compare how you actually coped to your plan — the gap is your next training target.
Cope Ahead: DBT’s Method for Preparing for Difficult Situations - Apply problem-focused coping to changeable stressors
When the stressor is changeable, direct your energy at the situation rather than managing feelings about it.
Lazarus Appraisal Theory, Made Practical - Give the work back without abandoning people
Resist taking ownership of problems that belong to the people facing the adaptive challenge.
Adaptive Leadership, Made Practical - Ask the workability question
Ask "is what I am doing working?" — not "is it right?" but whether it is moving you toward the life you want.
Emotional Agility, Made Practical - Identify and anticipate upcoming transition windows
Treat approaching life changes as scheduled opportunities for habit installation — plan before the transition, not after.
The Habit Discontinuity Effect - Bring a proposed solution when you bring a problem
Describe the problem and your recommended path before asking for a decision.
Managing Up: Practical Skills for Working with Your Boss - Plan for obstacles with coping plans
Anticipate the specific obstacles most likely to block your plan and pre-decide your response to each.
Action Planning - Update your love map after major life changes
When life shifts, assume your map is outdated and ask new questions.
Love Maps: Knowing Your Partner's Inner World
Related concerns
- How To Cope With Change In The Workplace
Explicitly acknowledge what people must give up — not just what they will gain.
Name the loss the adaptive challenge requires
- How To Cope With Change In Life
Compare how you actually coped to your plan — the gap is your next training target.
Review what happened after the event to refine the next cope ahead
- How To Handle Change At Work
Explicitly acknowledge what people must give up — not just what they will gain.
- How To Handle Unexpected Changes At Work
Update your manager on important work before they ask — in the format and frequency they actually want.
Send proactive, brief status updates
- Coping Strategies That Work
Ask "is what I am doing working?" — not "is it right?" but whether it is moving you toward the life you want.
Ask the workability question
- Extreme Ownership During A Big Change
Extreme Ownership, from Navy SEAL officers Jocko Willink and Leif Babin, says the leader owns everything in their world — outcomes, mistakes, and the performance of the team — with no excuses and no blame passed down. It is a battlefield-tested practitioner model, not a lab-tested intervention: the mechanisms are sound, the evidence is experiential.
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