Coaching practices for How to Deal with Severe Stress

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• I’m so flooded right now I can’t think
• I just know I went from fine to flooded and I couldn’t tell you how
• When I’m in the thick of something stressful I go quiet and tell myself I’ll call people once I’ve handled it
• After a brutal day my body is still buzzing with all this fight-or-flight charge and nowhere for it to go, so I just sit there wired and restless
• I’ve gotten so good at "embracing the stress" that I keep telling myself I’m fine while quietly running on empty

Practices that may help

1. TIPP: Rapid Physiological De-escalation for Intense Distress
   Use Temperature, Intense exercise, Paced breathing, and Paired muscle relaxation to bring crisis-level emotion down quickly.
   The STOP Skill: A DBT Technique for Crisis Moments
2. Map your stress response (conceptualization phase)
   Before you train coping, understand the full sequence: trigger → appraisal → body → behavior → consequence.
   Stress Inoculation Training
3. Reach out when stressed, not after
   Contact a trusted person during stress, not only once it has passed — the oxytocin release is the active coping mechanism.
   Tend-and-Befriend, Made Practical
4. Physical movement to discharge the stress response
   The single most effective way to complete the stress cycle is vigorous physical activity.
   The Stress Response Cycle: How to Discharge Stress, Not Just Remove the Stressor
5. Pair the enhancing mindset with genuine stress management
   Believing stress can be useful does not mean tolerating excess — recognize when reduction is the right move.
   The Stress-Is-Enhancing Mindset
6. Practice coping under graduated real-world stress
   Move from imagined stressors to mild real ones to full-intensity situations — always with your coping tools active.
   Stress Inoculation Training
7. Use the prayer as a real-time triage tool in high-stress moments
   In acute stress, running the three-part sequence interrupts reactivity and restores the capacity to respond.
   The Serenity Prayer as a Practice Framework
8. TIPP — change your body chemistry fast
   Use Temperature, Intense exercise, Paced breathing, and Progressive muscle relaxation to drop overwhelm from the body up.
   Distress Tolerance Skills, Made Practical
9. Intense exercise: discharge the physiological arousal with brief intense movement
   Do 20 jumping jacks, sprint for a minute, or any intense exercise to burn through the stress-response chemicals.
   TIPP: DBT’s Crisis Skill for Rapidly Lowering Emotional Intensity
10. Debrief after each stressful encounter
    Within 24 hours of a challenging event, review what you did, what worked, and what you will adjust.
    Stress Inoculation Training

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