Coaching practices for How to Get Over Anxiety for an Upcoming Christmas Lunch at Work

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• The anxiety hits in the middle of a meeting or while I’m standing in line, and I can’t exactly close my eyes and name what I smell in front of everyone
• Even once the worst of it passes, I can’t get back into the room
• The hardest moments are the joins and the exits
• My thoughts are racing in circles and I can’t think my way out of the spiral
• I eat lunch at my desk alone most days and let weeks slip by without really seeing anyone, telling myself I’m too busy

Practices that may help

1. Use a 30-second micro-grounding version for public settings
   In public or meetings, a single-sense version — three named things you can see — takes 30 seconds and shows nothing.
   The 5-4-3-2-1 Grounding Technique
2. Engage with the present moment
   Once the edge comes off, redirect attention fully into an activity or your surroundings.
   The DARE Response to Anxiety, Made Practical
3. Build scripts for situation entry and transitions
   Prepare simple, natural openers and transitions so you’re not improvising from scratch under pressure.
   Overcoming Shyness: Philip Zimbardo’s Framework
4. Run the full 5-4-3-2-1 sequence
   Work through all five senses in order: 5 things seen, 4 heard, 3 touched, 2 smelled, 1 tasted.
   The 5-4-3-2-1 Grounding Technique
5. Fill your social calendar intentionally
   Treat every meal, coffee, and event as a relationship-building opportunity and schedule them as such.
   Never Eat Alone: Building a Real Network
6. Map best case, worst case, and most likely case
   Write out all three scenarios to reanchor your thinking in the probable, not just the feared.
   Decatastrophizing, Made Practical
7. Write about your worries before a high-stakes performance
   Offload performance anxiety by writing it out in full immediately before the event.
   Choking Under Pressure, Made Practical
8. Imagine losing your work or income
   Briefly contemplate life without your current livelihood, to loosen financial anxiety and restore perspective.
   Negative Visualization, the Stoic Practice
9. Build an avoidance hierarchy and work through it systematically
   List all the situations you avoid because of anxiety, from least to most frightening, then work up the list.
   Safety Behavior Fading, Made Practical
10. Map your safety-behavior inventory
    List every action you take to prevent feared outcomes in anxiety-provoking situations.
    Safety Behavior Fading, Made Practical

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