Coaching practices for How to Get Over Anxiety of Flying

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

• What I’m actually terrified of isn’t out there in the world
• I’ve got all these little things I do to get through anxious moments
• My list of no-go situations keeps quietly getting longer as the fear spreads, and the whole thing feels too overwhelming to face head-on
• I always wait until I’m already in full panic to try to calm down, and by then it’s too far gone for anything to work
• I keep asking the people around me "are you sure it’s fine?" over and over

Practices that may help

1. Add interoceptive rungs for bodily fear
   If you fear the physical sensations of anxiety itself, include exposures that deliberately induce them.
   The Fear Ladder: Graded Exposure Made Practical
2. Map your safety-behavior inventory
   List every action you take to prevent feared outcomes in anxiety-provoking situations.
   Safety Behavior Fading, Made Practical
3. The Fear Ladder: Graded Exposure Made Practical
   A fear ladder ranks feared situations from least to most distressing and has you face them in order, from bottom to top. Repeated, systematic exposure to each step without avoidance teaches the brain that the feared situation is survivable, gradually extinguishing the anxiety response. This is one of the best-supported techniques in the anxiety literature.
4. Build an avoidance hierarchy and work through it systematically
   List all the situations you avoid because of anxiety, from least to most frightening, then work up the list.
   Safety Behavior Fading, Made Practical
5. Use grounding before anxiety peaks, not after
   Start the technique at the first sign of anxiety — not once the wave is overwhelming.
   The 5-4-3-2-1 Grounding Technique
6. Fade reassurance-seeking
   Gradually reduce how often you seek reassurance from others that the feared thing won't happen.
   Safety Behavior Fading, Made Practical
7. Engage with the present moment
   Once the edge comes off, redirect attention fully into an activity or your surroundings.
   The DARE Response to Anxiety, Made Practical
8. Drop the safety behaviors
   Let go of the small avoidances and crutches you use to feel "safe" from anxiety.
   The DARE Response to Anxiety, Made Practical
9. Reframe from "preventing catastrophe" to "coping with discomfort"
   Shift the goal of entering feared situations from preventing disaster to practicing tolerance.
   Safety Behavior Fading, Made Practical
10. Imaginal exposure to the feared scenario
    Spend 15-20 minutes deliberately and vividly imagining the worst-case outcome, allowing anxiety to peak and subside.
    Worry Exposure, Made Practical

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