Coaching practices for How to Handle Burnout in College

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• I act like every single thing has to be done by me, and I’m drowning
• I burn enormous energy trying to fix things that aren’t mine to fix, and then go quiet and just stew over the things I actually could do something about
• Carrying everyone else’s anxiety and conflict has hollowed me out
• No single workout feels like too much, but the weeks keep stacking
• I push straight through for hours with no breaks because stopping feels like slacking, and by mid-afternoon the quality of everything I produce has quietly fallen off a cliff

Practices that may help

1. Outsource or delegate to keep a burner lit without your direct fuel
   Find ways to maintain a domain’s floor through systems, others, or automation rather than your direct effort.
   Four Burners Theory: Making Peace With Trade-Offs
2. Match coping mode to what is actually controllable
   Use problem-focused coping when you can change the situation; emotion-focused coping when you cannot.
   Stress Inoculation Training
3. Build sanctuaries for renewal outside the system
   Maintain relationships and practices outside the organizational system that restore perspective and capacity.
   Adaptive Leadership, Made Practical
4. Track cumulative training stress, not just individual sessions
   A single hard session is not the risk — it is the week-over-week accumulation of stress without matching recovery.
   Supercompensation
5. Build rhythmic oscillation between stress and recovery
   High performance is not sustained effort — it is deliberate alternation between full engagement and full recovery.
   The Energy Audit
6. Name which burners are actually on
   Honestly assess how much fuel each of the four domains is receiving right now.
   Four Burners Theory: Making Peace With Trade-Offs
7. Distinguish functional overreaching from non-functional overtraining
   Functional overreaching (planned short-term overload) leads to supercompensation; non-functional overtraining is a breakdown that can take months to reverse.
   Supercompensation
8. Use guilt-free play to recover rather than double down
   When avoidance happens, recover with genuine rest — not punitive extra work.
   The Now Habit, Made Practical
9. Oscillate between effort and recovery
   Pulse hard work with real recovery instead of grinding in a flat line.
   The Power of Full Engagement, Made Practical
10. Take a planned monitoring break to prevent tracking fatigue
    Sustained self-monitoring burns out — a deliberate short break with clear resumption rules prevents abandonment.
    Self-Monitoring, Made Practical

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