Coaching practices for How to Handle Competing Job Offers

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• I can’t get a read on what the other side actually cares about most
• My whole job search is just refreshing job boards and firing off applications into the void, competing with hundreds of strangers for whatever happens to be posted
• I’m torn between two things I care about
• A salary conversation is coming and I freeze on the number
• Something’s genuinely wrong here and there’s no time to coax everyone to a comfortable yes

Practices that may help

1. Make multiple equivalent simultaneous offers (MESOs)
   Propose several package deals of equal value to you — see which the other side prefers.
   Expanding the Pie: Negotiation Beyond Splitting the Difference
2. Build and work a target list of roles and organisations
   Replace passive job board browsing with active research into specific organisations you want to understand.
   Informational Interviews: Career Research That Builds Your Network
3. Use the bullseye to resolve competing values
   When two values pull in different directions, the bullseye shows you which domain is most neglected and most in need of attention.
   Values Bullseye, Made Practical
4. Use the door-in-the-face structure in salary and price negotiations
   In salary negotiation, opening high is partly a door-in-the-face move — your real ask lands against a high anchor.
   The Door-in-the-Face Technique, Made Practical
5. Competing (assertive, uncooperative)
   Pursue your own position firmly when speed, principle, or stakes outweigh the relationship cost.
   The Five Conflict-Resolution Styles
6. Disagree with your manager constructively
   State your disagreement clearly, give your reasoning, and then commit to the decision — without sacrificing either honesty or loyalty.
   Managing Up: Practical Skills for Working with Your Boss
7. Surface goal conflicts before they undermine each other
   Goals that compete for the same time or emotional bandwidth will suppress each other — make the conflict explicit.
   Goal Systems Theory: How Goals Work Together (and Against Each Other)
8. Bring a proposed solution when you bring a problem
   Describe the problem and your recommended path before asking for a decision.
   Managing Up: Practical Skills for Working with Your Boss
9. Focus on interests, not positions
   Ask why a position is taken — the underlying interest is almost always more negotiable than the stated demand.
   Principled Negotiation, Made Practical
10. Keep your Focus List physically visible
    Post your top 5 somewhere unavoidable so every new request gets evaluated against them.
    Warren Buffett’s Two-List Strategy

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