Coaching practices for How to Lead Through Change
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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?
- When I push my team on the hard stuff they either shut down and start blaming each other or just nod and carry on as before
- I raised the hard truth nobody wanted to hear and now the whole pushback has turned on me
- Everyone brings their problems to me to solve, I jump in and fix each one, and now I’m the bottleneck for everything while my people never grow
- I keep selling this change as a clear win and can’t understand why people are dragging their feet
- I’ve got an announcement to make and I’m about to do what I always do
Practices that may help
- Regulate the level of distress in the system
Keep productive pressure high enough to motivate change but low enough to prevent shutdown.
Adaptive Leadership, Made Practical - The Leader as Coach: A New Management Paradigm
Leading as a coach means creating space for people to think and grow rather than solving every problem for them. The approach draws on coaching methodology — asking over telling, listening before advising — and is supported by research on autonomy, self-efficacy, and learning. The shift is behaviorally demanding because telling feels faster and more capable, even when it systematically reduces the people around you. - Adaptive Leadership, Made Practical
Adaptive leadership, developed by Ron Heifetz and Marty Linsky at Harvard, distinguishes between technical problems (solvable with existing expertise) and adaptive challenges (requiring people to change their values, beliefs, or habits). The core skill is resisting the pull to apply technical fixes to adaptive problems — and instead helping people do the hard work of change themselves. - Hold steady when the system pushes back
Expect displacement, scapegoating, and pressure to return to the old equilibrium — and stay the course.
Adaptive Leadership, Made Practical - Give the work back without abandoning people
Resist taking ownership of problems that belong to the people facing the adaptive challenge.
Adaptive Leadership, Made Practical - Name the loss the adaptive challenge requires
Explicitly acknowledge what people must give up — not just what they will gain.
Adaptive Leadership, Made Practical - Communicate inside out: Why → How → What
Lead with the belief, then the approach, then the specifics — the reverse of the typical pitch order.
Start With Why: Leading Through Purpose - Leading from behind — the servant leader stance
Influence others more through example, listening, and restraint than through assertion and command.
The Tao Te Ching, Made Practical - Give voice to those with uncomfortable perspectives
Actively surface and protect the dissenting or marginal voices the system wants to silence.
Adaptive Leadership, Made Practical - Believe — and make the why clear
You cannot lead people toward a mission you do not understand or believe in yourself.
Extreme Ownership, Made Practical
Related concerns
- Adaptive Leadership During A Big Change
Adaptive leadership, developed by Ron Heifetz and Marty Linsky at Harvard, distinguishes between technical problems (solvable with existing expertise) and adaptive challenges (requiring people to change their values, beliefs, or habits). The core skill is resisting the pull to apply technical fixes to adaptive problems — and instead helping people do the hard work of change themselves.
- Adaptive Leadership As A Parent
Resist taking ownership of problems that belong to the people facing the adaptive challenge.
Give the work back without abandoning people
- Adaptive Leadership During Conflict
Competing — high assertive, low cooperative — is appropriate when the decision is urgent, high-stakes, and not open for debate.
Use Competing when speed or safety matters more than buy-in
- Adaptive Leadership Pushback
Expect displacement, scapegoating, and pressure to return to the old equilibrium — and stay the course.
Hold steady when the system pushes back
- Adaptive Leadership Under Stress
Keep productive pressure high enough to motivate change but low enough to prevent shutdown.
Regulate the level of distress in the system
- Adaptive Leadership When Overwhelmed
Keep productive pressure high enough to motivate change but low enough to prevent shutdown.
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