Coaching practices for How to Make Decisions Under Emotion

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• My mood keeps making my decisions for me
• I’m about to make a big call, but I came into it already wound up from something completely unrelated earlier today, and I’m worried that leftover mood is quietly tilting how I’m weighing this
• On paper this is the obviously rational call, but there’s a gut unease about it nobody will say out loud because we can’t justify it logically
• I’ll snap at someone or make a bad call and only realize hours later that I was already in a mood the whole time
• I keep saying yes to the same gatherings and commitments that reliably leave me drained and rattled, then trying to white-knuckle my way through the feelings once I’m there

Practices that may help

1. Walk your why — act from values, not from mood
   Choose your response based on what matters to you, not on what the emotion is demanding.
   Emotional Agility, Made Practical
2. Name your emotional state before making an important decision
   Identify and name the emotion you are in before committing to a significant choice.
   The Feeling Wheel: Building Emotional Vocabulary
3. Red hat: name the emotions without justifying them
   Give feelings a legitimate place in the discussion — the red hat makes emotional data explicit so it stops running covertly.
   Six Thinking Hats, Made Practical
4. Self-awareness
   Notice your emotions as they arise and recognize how they shape your judgment and behavior.
   Emotional Intelligence, Made Practical
5. Situation selection
   Choose or avoid situations based on their likely emotional consequences — regulation before the event.
   Cognitive Reappraisal vs. Suppression, Made Practical
6. Check the facts first
   Decide whether the emotion actually fits the situation before doing anything about it.
   Opposite Action: Acting Against the Emotion’s Urge
7. Delay a decision until the initial emotional spike passes
   Give yourself 24 hours after a strong emotional reaction before committing to a choice.
   The Affect Heuristic — When Feelings Substitute for Facts
8. Use the 10-year view to check values alignment
   Ask: is the 10-year version of this choice consistent with what I actually care about?
   The 10-10-10 Rule
9. Check whether your judgment is tracking affect, not the target attribute
   When a decision "just feels right," ask whether the feeling is about the actual question or about your current emotional state.
   Attribute Substitution: When Your Brain Answers a Different Question
10. Classify decisions by reversibility and stakes
    Sort decisions into low-stakes/high-stakes and reversible/irreversible before deciding.
    Decision Journaling: Learning to Decide Better Over Time

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