Coaching practices for How to Navigate Life Transitions

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  • Everything that used to give my life shape suddenly feels hollow and the new thing hasn’t arrived yet, so I’m stuck in this disorienting in-between
  • My partner is going through a huge change right now
  • I’ve got a big move (or a new job) coming up in a couple of months, and I can feel it’s a rare chance to start fresh
  • This chapter of my life feels like scattered, disconnected fragments with no through-line, and I want to be able to tell the story of it
  • I honestly can’t tell where I am in my own life right now

Practices that may help

  1. Navigate season transitions — the gap is normal and necessary
    The confusion and loss of meaning between seasons is structural, not personal failure.
    Seasons of Life
  2. Update your love map after major life changes
    When life shifts, assume your map is outdated and ask new questions.
    Love Maps: Knowing Your Partner's Inner World
  3. Seasons of Life
    The seasons-of-life framework treats adult development as a sequence of distinct phases — each with its own natural demands, appropriate priorities, and transition challenges. Drawing on developmental psychology (Levinson, Erikson, Sheehy) and practical life-design work, it argues that straining against your current season (trying to do spring work in autumn, or refusing to accept a transition) produces more distress than the season itself.
  4. Identify and anticipate upcoming transition windows
    Treat approaching life changes as scheduled opportunities for habit installation — plan before the transition, not after.
    The Habit Discontinuity Effect
  5. Write a brief narrative of your season to make it coherent
    People who can tell a coherent story about their life stage navigate it more effectively than those who cannot.
    Seasons of Life
  6. Identify your current season honestly
    Name the season you are actually in — not the one you want to be in or the one others expect.
    Seasons of Life
  7. Identifying the turning points that shaped you
    Single out the three to five moments where your trajectory genuinely changed — and examine what you made of them.
    The Life Line Exercise
  8. Use social transitions to change the norms around your behavior
    When your social group changes, use the transition to adopt the behavioral norms of the new group rather than carrying old ones.
    The Habit Discontinuity Effect
  9. Review whether your key relationships are season-appropriate
    Some relationships that sustained you in a past season may be misaligned with your current one — and vice versa.
    Seasons of Life
  10. The last chance before a transition
    Before a major life change, fully inhabit what is ending, rather than only anticipating what comes next.
    The Last Time Meditation

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