Coaching practices for How Do I Recover From Founder Depression or Extended Burnout

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• Carrying everyone else’s anxiety and conflict has hollowed me out
• Some part of me treats this failure as final
• I overdid it yesterday and woke up already in the hole, but instead of resting to climb back out I just keep pushing
• I hit a setback on something I was genuinely excited about and now the eagerness has gone flat
• The big blowup is over but I’m completely wrung out

Practices that may help

1. Build sanctuaries for renewal outside the system
   Maintain relationships and practices outside the organizational system that restore perspective and capacity.
   Adaptive Leadership, Made Practical
2. Plan how to repair each worst case
   If the worst case happened anyway, write how you’d get back to where you are now.
   Fear-Setting, Made Practical
3. Recognize and recover from spoon debt
   When you’ve spent more than you had, treat recovery as a genuine obligation, not as laziness — debt must be repaid before the next draw.
   Spoon Theory, Made Practical
4. Recover promotion-focus motivation through approach-reminders after setbacks
   Setbacks deflate promotion motivation — the fastest recovery is reconnecting to the desired gain, not mitigating the loss.
   Regulatory Focus Theory: Promotion vs Prevention Thinking
5. Recover and recharge after intense emotion
   After an emotional peak, deliberately allow recovery time — intense arousal depletes resources.
   The 90-Second Rule, Made Practical
6. Use controlled re-entry after a panic response
   When you overshoot and shut down, return to the edge from the comfort side, not the panic side.
   The Comfort Zone Model: How to Grow Without Burning Out
7. Use guilt-free play to recover rather than double down
   When avoidance happens, recover with genuine rest — not punitive extra work.
   The Now Habit, Made Practical
8. ACCEPTS — structured distraction from crisis
   Use Activities, Contributing, Comparisons, Emotions, Pushing away, Thoughts, and Sensations to redirect attention during a crisis.
   Distress Tolerance Skills, Made Practical
9. Reframing loss as transformation
   When something ends or is lost, practise asking what it is becoming rather than only mourning what it was.
   Zhuangzi and the Practice of Perspective Shift
10. Recover intrinsic interest after it has been crowded out
    Intrinsic interest that has been undermined can often be partially recovered by removing the reward and reconnecting to original reasons.
    The Overjustification Effect: When Rewards Kill Motivation

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