Coaching practices for How to Replace a Bad Habit

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  • I’ve been trying to dodge the whole trigger
  • Every time I try to break this habit I just try to white-knuckle it away and grit my teeth through the craving
  • Every time I try to just go cold-turkey and stop the behavior outright, the pull comes roaring back and I cave
  • I keep reaching for the virtuous swap
  • I keep trying to white-knuckle the old habit away by just not doing it, and the willpower drains and I cave every time

Practices that may help

  1. Habit Substitution: Swap the Routine, Keep the Reward
    Habit substitution means you do not try to delete a bad habit; you keep the same cue and the same reward it delivers and swap only the routine in the middle for a better one. The cue-routine-reward structure is grounded in real neuroscience and the substitution logic aligns with clinical relapse-prevention practice, but the step-by-step substitution method is a practitioner application rather than a single controlled trial.
  2. Fire the new routine on the original cue
    Leave the trigger in place and attach the new behavior to it, every time.
    Habit Substitution: Swap the Routine, Keep the Reward
  3. Keep the cue and reward, swap the routine
    Duhigg’s “golden rule”: change a habit by inserting a new routine between the same cue and reward.
    The Power of Habit, Made Practical
  4. Keep the cue and reward; swap only the routine
    Replace the behavior that delivers the craving with a different one that delivers the same satisfaction.
    The Habit Loop, Made Practical
  5. Choose a replacement that delivers the same reward
    The new routine must satisfy the original craving, or the old one snaps back.
    Habit Substitution: Swap the Routine, Keep the Reward
  6. Replace the old behavior with a healthier substitute
    Substituting a competing response for a problem behavior is more durable than suppression alone.
    The Transtheoretical Model of Change, Made Practical
  7. Build a craving deliberately to cement a new habit
    Create an anticipatory craving for the reward of a new behavior before the reward arrives.
    The Habit Loop, Made Practical
  8. Map the cue-routine-reward loop
    Break a habit into its three parts before you try to change anything.
    The Power of Habit, Made Practical
  9. Diagnose the cue and the real reward first
    You cannot substitute a routine until you know what trigger fires it and what payoff it delivers.
    Habit Substitution: Swap the Routine, Keep the Reward
  10. Protect the swap under stress
    The original loop is suppressed, not deleted, so guard the substitute hardest when stressed.
    Habit Substitution: Swap the Routine, Keep the Reward

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