Coaching practices for How to Resist Cravings Mindfully

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  • When a craving hits I clench up and tell myself NO, and that white-knuckle fight just makes it scream louder until I cave anyway
  • Telling myself to resist a craving forever feels impossible and I give up before I start
  • I keep finding myself already mid-snack or already typing the sharp reply, with no memory of deciding to
  • When the craving hits I get stuck in this endless head-argument
  • The second I feel a craving I start beating myself up for being so weak, and the shame somehow makes me want the thing even more

Practices that may help

  1. Surf the urge instead of fighting it
    Urges are waves — they rise, peak, and fall without action if you observe rather than fight them.
    The Willpower Instinct: What Self-Control Actually Is
  2. Buy time with a brief delay
    Commit to waiting just ten minutes before acting on the urge.
    Urge Surfing: Riding the Wave of a Craving
  3. Notice the urge as it arises
    Catch the craving early, the moment it starts, before it becomes an automatic action.
    Urge Surfing: Riding the Wave of a Craving
  4. Urge Surfing: Riding the Wave of a Craving
    Urge surfing means treating a craving like a wave — observing it rise, peak, and fall instead of either fighting it or acting on it. Drawn from Alan Marlatt’s mindfulness-based relapse prevention, it works because urges are time-limited and pass on their own when not fed. It is a well-established clinical technique for everyday cravings; for serious addiction, it belongs alongside professional support, not instead of it.
  5. Locate the urge in your body
    Describe where and how the craving shows up physically instead of arguing with it in your head.
    Urge Surfing: Riding the Wave of a Craving
  6. Meet the urge without judging yourself
    Treat having an urge as normal and human, not as evidence of weakness.
    Urge Surfing: Riding the Wave of a Craving
  7. Redirect attention away from the reward
    You do not resist the temptation by staring at it — you win by looking elsewhere.
    Delayed Gratification, Made Practical
  8. Ride the wave to its peak and down
    Watch the urge rise, crest, and fall without acting — like a wave you are surfing.
    Urge Surfing: Riding the Wave of a Craving
  9. Urge Surfing: Riding Out the Impulse Without Acting
    Treat an urge to act impulsively like a wave — observe it rise and fall without being swept away.
    The STOP Skill: A DBT Technique for Crisis Moments
  10. Engineer the temptation out of reach
    Don’t out-wait the temptation — arrange your environment so the choice rarely arises.
    Delayed Gratification, Made Practical

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