Coaching practices for How to Start Doing Things When Depressed

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• Things that used to be nothing
• There’s this one thing I have to do that just looms over me
• I’ve stopped doing nearly everything
• I keep telling myself I’ll do things once I feel up to it, and that moment just never arrives
• Even the things that used to be fun feel completely flat now, so chasing fun is pointless

Practices that may help

1. Grade activity difficulty upward gradually
   Start with the easiest feasible pleasant activity and increase demands only after success.
   Pleasant Events Scheduling, Made Practical
2. Graded task assignment: break overwhelming tasks into very small steps
   Decompose any avoided, overwhelming task into steps small enough that the first one is trivially doable.
   Behavioral Activation: Acting Your Way Out of Low Mood
3. Behavioral activation
   Schedule small, valued, or rewarding actions to break the low-mood-and-inactivity loop.
   Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Made Practical
4. Activity scheduling: plan valued activities before you feel like it
   Schedule specific activities in your calendar based on your values, not on your motivation level.
   Behavioral Activation: Acting Your Way Out of Low Mood
5. Connect activities to values, not just pleasure
   Select activities that align with what matters to you, not just what feels good right now.
   Behavioral Activation: Acting Your Way Out of Low Mood
6. Pleasant events scheduling
   Deliberately introduce small pleasures into daily life — not as luxuries, but as antidepressants.
   Behavioral Activation: Acting Your Way Out of Low Mood
7. Schedule social contact as a priority activity
   Treat social interaction as a prescribed activity, not as something to do when you feel ready.
   Pleasant Events Scheduling, Made Practical
8. Schedule activities before you feel like doing them
   Block specific pleasant activities in your calendar this week — do not wait for motivation.
   Pleasant Events Scheduling, Made Practical
9. Engage when sadness says withdraw
   When low mood urges isolation and shutdown, deliberately do an activity and connect.
   Opposite Action: Acting Against the Emotion’s Urge
10. Build your personal pleasant events inventory
    List every activity that has ever generated even mild pleasure — including things not done in a long time.
    Pleasant Events Scheduling, Made Practical

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