Coaching practices for How to Sustain Team Norms

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• My team has finally figured out how to work together, but it all lives in everyone’s heads
• When someone on my team drops the ball, everyone just waits for me to be the one to say something
• Some people on my team never really seem to feel part of it
• Nobody on my team will say what they really think
• Everyone on my team is quietly playing for their own scoreboard

Practices that may help

1. Norming: codify agreements in writing
   What the team has figured out informally needs to become explicit so it survives personnel changes.
   Tuckman’s Stages of Team Development
2. Create a culture of peer-to-peer accountability
   Teams that only hold each other accountable through the manager haven’t built real accountability at all.
   The Five Dysfunctions of a Team, Made Practical
3. Establish inclusion safety — belonging without conditions
   Make every team member feel valued and accepted as a human being before expecting performance.
   The Four Stages of Psychological Safety
4. Create safety for experimentation and honest challenge
   Make it safe to raise problems, test new ideas, and disagree — before expecting the team to transform.
   Transformational Leadership, Made Practical
5. Align around collective results, not individual status
   Teams fail when members prioritize their own visibility or department’s success over the shared goal.
   The Five Dysfunctions of a Team, Made Practical
6. Use regular team health checks to surface dysfunction early
   Teams that check in on how they’re working together catch dysfunction before it compounds.
   The Five Dysfunctions of a Team, Made Practical
7. Develop challenger safety — dissent and challenge are welcomed, not punished
   Create an environment where questioning decisions, challenging leaders, and dissenting are genuinely safe.
   The Four Stages of Psychological Safety
8. Build vulnerability-based trust
   Teams that can’t admit weakness, mistakes, or ignorance to each other cannot genuinely collaborate.
   The Five Dysfunctions of a Team, Made Practical
9. Teach speak-up skills, not just encourage speaking up
   Give team members specific language for raising concerns, not just permission to raise them.
   Psychological Safety in Teams
10. Hold high standards inside high safety
    Safety without standards is comfort; standards without safety is fear. You need both axes high.
    Psychological Safety, Made Practical

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