Coaching practices for How to Write Your Life Story

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• My past feels like loose, raw fragments that don’t add up to anything, and I want to lay it out in chapters and actually write the story of each one
• My whole life feels like a jumble of memories I’ve never laid out in one place
• My life feels like one undifferentiated blur of stuff that happened, and I can’t step back far enough to see the shape of it
• This chapter of my life feels like scattered, disconnected fragments with no through-line, and I want to be able to tell the story of it
• There are a handful of moments where my whole life pivoted, and I’ve quietly decided what each one means

Practices that may help

1. Write a structured autobiography by life chapter
   Divide your life into chapters and write the story of each — what happened, what you felt, what it meant.
   Life Review and Reminiscence Therapy
2. Draw the life line
   Draw a horizontal timeline and mark the key high points, low points, and turning points of your life.
   The Life Line Exercise
3. Map your life in chapters
   Divide your life into named chapters to see the arc you’ve been living.
   Narrative Identity, Made Practical
4. Write a brief narrative of your season to make it coherent
   People who can tell a coherent story about their life stage navigate it more effectively than those who cannot.
   Seasons of Life
5. The Life Line Exercise
   The life line exercise is a narrative reflection tool that asks you to map your life visually — high points, low points, and turning points — on a timeline. It surfaces the implicit story you have been telling yourself about your life, makes that story revisable, and identifies the experiences that most shaped your current values and patterns. Evidence is primarily clinical and observational; it is an established coaching and therapy tool with a solid mechanistic rationale.
6. Identifying the turning points that shaped you
   Single out the three to five moments where your trajectory genuinely changed — and examine what you made of them.
   The Life Line Exercise
7. Map your turning points and what they changed
   Identify the two to four moments that most fundamentally redirected the arc of your life.
   Life Review and Reminiscence Therapy
8. Chapter titles — giving each life phase a name
   Divide your life line into phases and give each a chapter title that captures its essential quality.
   The Life Line Exercise
9. Revise your life narrative when it limits you
   Identify and reauthor the story you tell about your past that constrains what you believe is possible.
   The Life Crafting Intervention: Scripting Your Future Self
10. Create a testimony document
    NET produces a written testimony of the person’s life — a document that the person and therapist co-author and that the person keeps.
    Narrative Exposure Therapy (NET): Weaving Trauma Into a Coherent Life Story

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