Coaching practices for Identity Priming with My Team

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

  • I can hold the intention to be a certain way in my head all morning, but the second I’m standing in the actual spot
  • When I’m trying to bring someone around, they treat me as an outsider pushing my own agenda
  • I lead straight in with my pitch and watch people’s guard go up before I’ve finished a sentence
  • On my own I only know so much about each piece of this, and when the team brainstorms together the loudest first idea anchors everyone
  • My private intentions are too easy to quietly let slide because no one would ever know

Practices that may help

  1. Identity Priming, Made Practical
    Identity priming is the finding that briefly activating a self-concept (e.g., "I am someone who values health") before a decision increases the chance of behavior consistent with that identity. Effects are real but modest and context-dependent; they are most reliable when the identity is already part of how you genuinely see yourself.
  2. Prime your identity with environmental cues
    Place objects, images, or phrases that represent your desired identity in the spaces where the relevant behavior happens.
    Identity Priming, Made Practical
  3. Activate unity — shared identity before the message
    Establish genuine shared identity with your audience before presenting your position.
    Pre-Suasion, Made Practical
  4. Channel attention to the relevant concept before the ask
    Briefly focus the audience on a concept that makes your core message naturally follow.
    Pre-Suasion, Made Practical
  5. Run a structured team morphological session
    The method is most powerful when multiple perspectives populate the dimensions and values.
    Morphological Analysis, Made Practical
  6. Make a small public commitment that locks in the identity
    A simple public or written commitment to an identity generates internal pressure to act consistently with it.
    Identity Priming, Made Practical
  7. Borrow an identity temporarily by asking "what would [person] do?"
    Temporarily adopting a role model’s identity in a specific context lowers the friction of acting as they would.
    Identity Priming, Made Practical
  8. Recognition-Primed Decision Making
    Gary Klein’s research found that experienced practitioners in high-stakes environments rarely compare options side by side. Instead, they recognize a situation as a familiar type, mentally simulate one course of action, and go with it if the simulation holds up — a process that is fast, accurate under time pressure, and breaks down predictably when the situation is genuinely novel.
  9. Prime identity before the ask — "what kind of person are you?"
    Invite the person to describe who they are in terms that align with the behavior you’re requesting.
    Pre-Suasion, Made Practical
  10. Define "important" explicitly as a team
    Before sorting tasks, align on what "important" means — which goals, for whom, over what time horizon.
    The Eisenhower Matrix for Teams

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