Coaching practices for Imagined Future Narrative

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

• I’ve got goals on a list but the future feels flat and far away, nothing I can actually feel pulling me
• Looking back, the way it turned out feels like the only way it ever could have gone
• When I try to picture my future it stays abstract and far away
• When I picture myself a year or ten years out, it’s like thinking about a stranger I don’t really owe anything to
• There’s a story I tell about my past

Practices that may help

1. Write vivid imagined future scenes
   Extend your life story into the future with specific, felt scenes — not just goals.
   Narrative Identity, Made Practical
2. Generate alternative histories for past outcomes
   For any past success or failure, construct two or three plausible alternative paths that could have led to a different outcome.
   The Narrative Fallacy: Why We Can’t Stop Making Stories
3. Write a best-possible-life narrative
   Write a detailed story of your life in 10 years if everything went as well as it possibly could.
   The Life Crafting Intervention: Scripting Your Future Self
4. Make your future self vivid to reduce psychological distance
   Write to your future self or imagine a specific day in your desired future — temporal distance amplifies present bias; vividness reduces it.
   Hyperbolic Discounting — Why Future You Always Gets the Short End
5. Revise your life narrative when it limits you
   Identify and reauthor the story you tell about your past that constrains what you believe is possible.
   The Life Crafting Intervention: Scripting Your Future Self
6. Write a letter from your future self
   Have your 80-year-old self write back about the decision you’re facing now.
   The Regret-Minimization Framework
7. Run prototyping conversations before committing to a plan
   Talk to people already living your Plan B or C before you decide whether to pursue it.
   Odyssey Plans: Designing Three Alternative Futures
8. Run a pre-mortem to interrupt forward narrative construction
   Before committing to a plan, imagine it failed completely — then generate the most plausible story of why.
   The Narrative Fallacy: Why We Can’t Stop Making Stories
9. Re-Authoring the Alternative Story
   Build a preferred story of identity by thickening the exceptions into a narrative with a plot.
   Narrative Therapy: Rewriting the Stories That Define You
10. Identify the other things that will also be true of your future life
    Focalism makes future events seem bigger than they are by ignoring all the other things that will still be present.
    Affect Forecasting: Why You Mispredicted How You’d Feel

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