Coaching practices for Immunity to Change Kegan

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

  • I genuinely want to make this change and I keep not doing it, and it’s not laziness
  • There’s a change I genuinely want and keep failing at, and it’s starting to feel like some hidden part of me is quietly working against it
  • I can name the deep fear that keeps me stuck
  • I keep throwing better information and new tactics at this problem and it just comes back
  • I’m certain that if this goes the way I fear, I’ll never recover from it

Practices that may help

  1. Map your immunity to change
    Find the hidden competing commitments that are holding a desired change in place.
    Kegan’s Subject-Object Theory, Made Practical
  2. Map your immunity to change
    Surface the hidden competing commitment that keeps sabotaging a change you genuinely want.
    Self-Authorship: Moving From the Socialized to the Self-Authored Mind
  3. Test the big assumption behind your immunity
    Design a small experiment to check whether the assumption keeping you stuck is actually true.
    Kegan’s Subject-Object Theory, Made Practical
  4. Distinguish technical problems from adaptive challenges
    Separate problems you can solve with existing expertise from those requiring you to change.
    Kegan’s Subject-Object Theory, Made Practical
  5. Kegan’s Subject-Object Theory, Made Practical
    Robert Kegan’s subject-object theory holds that adult development is a series of shifts in what you are "subject to" (run by, unable to see) versus what you can hold as "object" (observe and reflect on). Each developmental order expands what you can see about yourself and others, and the practices that support these transitions — reflective inquiry, perspective-taking, immunity mapping — have clinical grounding, though the stage theory itself is based primarily on observational and interview research.
  6. Expect to adapt more than you think you will
    Your psychological immune system will make most setbacks feel more tolerable than you currently predict.
    Affect Forecasting: Why You Mispredicted How You’d Feel
  7. Track your temptation-to-confidence ratio
    Confidence in your ability to resist temptation must outpace the pull of the old behavior.
    The Transtheoretical Model of Change, Made Practical
  8. Cultivate a scout identity: "I’m the kind of person who updates"
    Build an identity where intellectual updating is a strength, not a concession.
    The Scout Mindset
  9. Cultivate genuine belief that change is possible
    Habits stick permanently only when the person believes they can change — especially under stress.
    The Habit Loop, Made Practical
  10. Inoculate against counter-persuasion
    Expose people to weakened counter-arguments so they build resistance before a real attack arrives.
    Elaboration Likelihood Model, Made Practical

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