Coaching practices for Indistractable Before Bed

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  • There’s no point where I actually put the screen down for the night
  • I want to stop the bedtime scroll, but if I just lie there with nothing my mind races, so I keep reaching for the phone again because I don’t know what else to do with that wind-down hour.
  • My bed has basically become where I scroll and watch shows, not where I sleep
  • The moment the lights go out my brain starts running tomorrow’s to-do list on a loop
  • The second my head hits the pillow my mind starts up

Practices that may help

  1. Set a screen cutoff time
    Pick a consistent hour to put screens away and protect the wind-down window.
    The Digital Sunset
  2. Replace phone scrolling with a physical book at bedtime
    A physical book provides relaxation without blue light, notifications, or the variable-reward loop.
    The Phone-Free Bedroom
  3. Indistractable, Made Practical
    Nir Eyal argues that distraction is driven less by technology than by our attempt to escape uncomfortable internal states, so the core move is to master those internal triggers, plan time for what matters (traction), and use pacts to prevent slips. The internal-trigger framing rests on solid emotion-regulation research; the specific four-part model is a practitioner synthesis.
  4. Keep screens out of the bedroom
    Reserve the bed for sleep so the space itself cues winding down.
    The Digital Sunset
  5. Offload cognitive load with a bedtime worry journal
    Write tomorrow’s to-do list and any intrusive worries before bed — externalized thoughts stop competing for attention at sleep onset.
    The Wind-Down Routine: Engineering Your Path to Sleep
  6. Schedule a worry time earlier in the day
    Contain bedtime worry by giving anxious thoughts a specific earlier window, then postponing them at night.
    CBT for Insomnia (CBT-I), Made Practical
  7. Master your internal triggers
    Identify the uncomfortable feeling that precedes distraction and address it directly.
    Indistractable, Made Practical
  8. Make time for traction with timeboxing
    Plan your day in advance so every block has an intended use you chose.
    Indistractable, Made Practical
  9. Pre-sleep trataka for insomnia and mind-calming
    A ten-minute trataka session in low light before bed draws scattered thoughts into a single point.
    Trataka: The Yoga Practice of Fixed-Gaze Meditation
  10. Anchor the wind-down with a consistent starting cue
    A repeated pre-sleep ritual — a specific tea, a book, a certain playlist — becomes a conditioned cue that induces sleepiness over time.
    The Wind-Down Routine: Engineering Your Path to Sleep

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