Coaching practices for Informal Mindfulness Soto

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  • On the cushion I can find that open, present quality, but the instant I stand up it evaporates
  • Even in meditation I’m secretly grading myself, chasing some better state, treating sitting as a means to an end
  • I can be calm on the cushion and then completely lose it the moment real life starts
  • The calm I find on the cushion evaporates the moment I stand up and the day grabs me
  • My mindfulness practice has narrowed down to just watching my breath and it’s gone a bit stale and flat

Practices that may help

  1. Extending shikantaza to daily activity
    Bring the same non-grasping, present awareness from formal sitting into ordinary tasks.
    Shikantaza: Just Sitting
  2. Shikantaza — "just sitting" in the Soto Zen tradition
    Sit with complete presence and nothing to achieve — no goal, no technique, no observer separate from sitting.
    Open Monitoring Meditation, Made Practical
  3. Informal everyday mindfulness
    Bring full attention to one routine daily activity — eating, washing dishes, walking — as a practice.
    Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction (MBSR)
  4. Continuous noting — extending the practice into daily activity
    Maintain a running background note on mental events throughout ordinary tasks, sustaining the observer stance informally.
    Noting Practice, Made Practical
  5. Right mindfulness — the four foundations of awareness
    Practise systematic awareness of body, feeling-tones, mind states, and dharmas as the core of satipatthana.
    The Noble Eightfold Path as a Practical Life Framework
  6. Non-grasping awareness: letting arise and pass
    Watch thoughts, sensations, and emotions arise and dissolve without grabbing or pushing.
    Shikantaza: Just Sitting
  7. Walking kinhin in ordinary settings
    Practice the kinhin quality of attention during any walk — commuting, corridors, yard.
    Kinhin: Zen Walking Meditation
  8. The attitudes of mindfulness
    Cultivate the inner stances — non-judging, patience, beginner’s mind, acceptance, letting go — that make attention healing rather than harsh.
    Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction (MBSR)
  9. Pu — simplicity and the uncarved block
    Return regularly to an unconditioned, open state before adding complexity or opinion.
    The Tao Te Ching, Made Practical
  10. Titrate: start with shorter, shallower practice and increase slowly
    Build mindfulness tolerance incrementally — brief and externally anchored before deep and sustained.
    Trauma-Sensitive Mindfulness, Made Practical

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