Coaching practices for Instructional Self Talk

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• When a problem gets hard my mind just goes quiet and blank and I sort of stall out staring at it
• I already know the exact situations that throw me
• I want to fix what I say to myself when I compete, but if I’m honest I can’t even reliably remember what that was
• On the fine, precise part of what I do my attention scatters at the worst moment and the same small technical thing keeps slipping
• One mistake mid-performance and my head spins into “you’re blowing it” on a loop that just feeds itself and wrecks the rest

Practices that may help

1. Self-Talk Strategies, Made Practical
   Self-talk — the internal or external commentary we generate before and during performance — reliably affects performance outcomes, according to meta-analyses by Hatzigeorgiadis and colleagues. Instructional self-talk improves fine motor skill; motivational self-talk improves power and endurance tasks. The specific content and function of the self-talk matter more than whether it is positive or negative.
2. Use self-directed speech to regulate problem-solving
   Talk yourself through a hard task aloud; private speech is an internalized coaching voice.
   Zone of Proximal Development: Learning at Your Real Edge
3. Prepare "if-then" self-talk scripts for predictable pressure moments
   Pre-script your self-talk response to the specific situations most likely to derail you.
   Self-Talk Strategies, Made Practical
4. Monitor your self-talk patterns to identify what to change
   Track what you actually say to yourself during and after performance before trying to change it.
   Self-Talk Strategies, Made Practical
5. Use instructional self-talk for precision skill tasks
   Use short technical cues that direct attention to the key movement parameter rather than the outcome.
   Self-Talk Strategies, Made Practical
6. Use thought-stopping to interrupt negative self-talk spirals
   Install a deliberate interruption cue that breaks self-critical rumination before it compounds.
   Self-Talk Strategies, Made Practical
7. Identify your Self 1 interference in real time
   Notice when your inner critic is instructing, judging, or catastrophizing — and name it as Self 1.
   The Inner Game: Quieting Self 1
8. Use motivational self-talk for endurance and power tasks
   Pump yourself up verbally for tasks requiring effort, strength, or push through discomfort.
   Self-Talk Strategies, Made Practical
9. Give Self 2 a concrete focus anchor
   Occupy Self 1 with a specific sensory observation task so it stops issuing unhelpful instructions.
   The Inner Game: Quieting Self 1
10. Warm self-talk
    Speak to yourself in distress the way you would speak to a struggling friend — warmly, honestly, and without blame.
    Self-Soothing, Made Practical

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