Coaching practices for Intention Before Phone

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• I pick up my phone to do one quick thing
• I start strong leaving the phone by the door, but then "what if the school calls" or "what if there’s an emergency" creeps in and I cave and grab it back
• We sit down to eat together and within minutes everyone, me included, is half-glancing at a phone on the table
• I’m sitting across from someone I care about with my phone face-down on the table, and even though I’m not using it, half of me is waiting for it to buzz
• My thumb finds the same two apps and opens them before I even know I picked up the phone

Practices that may help

1. State your intention before picking up a device
   Before opening a phone or browser, name what you are trying to accomplish — and close the device when that task is done.
   The Attention Economy: Reclaiming Your Focus from Systems Designed to Capture It
2. Plan for the common obstacles before they arrive
   Identify your three most likely reasons for abandoning the station and write a specific "if–then" response for each.
   The Phone Foyer Method
3. Use the phone stack at social meals
   At meals with others, all phones go face-down in the center of the table — first to reach loses.
   Grayscale Phone Mode and Behavioral Design
4. Protect conversations from phone intrusion
   Put the phone away — not face-down, fully away — during in-person conversations.
   Attention Reclaiming: Digital Minimalism in Practice
5. Increase friction on high-capture apps
   Add steps between you and the apps most likely to capture you — every additional tap reduces automatic use.
   Grayscale Phone Mode and Behavioral Design
6. Practice intentional technology use — pause before opening any device
   Before picking up your phone or opening a new tab, insert a one-second deliberate choice: "What am I doing this for?"
   Technostress: What It Is and How to Manage It
7. Replace checking with a scheduled pickup window
   Instead of picking up the phone whenever the urge hits, designate two pickup windows per evening.
   The Phone Foyer Method
8. Designate a charging station at the entry point of your home
   Place a charger by the front door and make it your phone’s default resting place when you arrive home.
   The Phone Foyer Method
9. Extend the method by declaring one room phone-free
   Choose one room — dining room, bedroom, or bathroom — as a phone-free zone to reinforce the foyer boundary.
   The Phone Foyer Method
10. Use a dedicated camera for photography instead of a phone
    A point-and-shoot camera keeps photography intentional and keeps the phone out of social environments.
    Single-Purpose Devices

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