Coaching practices for It Manager Giving False Information to Management About the Possibility of Remote Work
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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?
- My boss keeps checking in and hovering over my work, and it makes me feel untrusted
- When I quietly decline meetings to protect my focus time it comes across as me being unavailable or standoffish, and I keep having to re-negotiate it one request at a time
- Someone senior just found out about a change after the fact and was hurt they were the last to know
- I keep dropping problems on my boss’s desk and waiting for them to tell me what to do, and I can feel it reads as me not owning my work
- I walked away from that meeting certain my boss is unhappy with me and certain the whole project is going to fall apart
Practices that may help
- Send proactive, brief status updates
Update your manager on important work before they ask — in the format and frequency they actually want.
Managing Up: Practical Skills for Working with Your Boss - Communicate your schedule mode to collaborators
Tell your team when you are in maker mode and what that means for response times.
Maker vs Manager Schedule - Inform stakeholders before they ask, not after they complain
I’s are one-way — they receive information; the cost of surprising them is always higher than the cost of telling them.
The RACI Matrix, Made Practical - Bring a proposed solution when you bring a problem
Describe the problem and your recommended path before asking for a decision.
Managing Up: Practical Skills for Working with Your Boss - Rule out mind-reading and fortune-telling
Catch the two most common interpretation errors — assuming you know what someone is thinking, or what is about to happen.
Check the Facts, Made Practical - Outsource personal and business tasks with a virtual assistant
Hand off any recurring task a written process can describe to a skilled assistant.
Lifestyle Design, Made Practical - Clarify what people can decide without asking
Define the fence: what decisions can anyone on the team make without checking in?
Delegation Levels, Made Practical - Audit which schedule you’re actually running on
Identify whether your work requires maker blocks, manager slots, or a hybrid — and how well your calendar reflects that.
Maker vs Manager Schedule - Resist reverse delegation (the "monkey back" problem)
When a report brings you their monkey, don’t take it — send it back with the next step owned.
Delegation Levels, Made Practical - Reset your perceived availability norm with your team
Explicitly renegotiate the expectation of instant response — most urgency is not real urgency.
Technostress: What It Is and How to Manage It
Related concerns
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Tell your team when you are in maker mode and what that means for response times.
Communicate your schedule mode to collaborators
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Update your manager on important work before they ask — in the format and frequency they actually want.
Send proactive, brief status updates
- Written Warning From Employer For Following Managers Instruction To Deploy Bugfix Directly To Production
Update your manager on important work before they ask — in the format and frequency they actually want.
- Asking Hiring Manager What Work Will Be Done With A Required Software
Identify whether your work requires maker blocks, manager slots, or a hybrid — and how well your calendar reflects that.
Audit which schedule you’re actually running on
- Boss Taking Forever To Check My Work
Describe the problem and your recommended path before asking for a decision.
Bring a proposed solution when you bring a problem
- Can My Boss Say Do This
State your disagreement clearly, give your reasoning, and then commit to the decision — without sacrificing either honesty or loyalty.
Disagree with your manager constructively
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